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Riana Malia | Identity Architect

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Love Expert | Relationship Authority for women who have built an amazing life except for the thing they want most- Extraordinary Love that matches it

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These are just a few of the incredible, badass women who have trusted me with their stories.

Some are writers, some are doctors, some are entrepreneurs, some are mothers and homemakers, some are still figuring out what comes next, and some are dreamers who decided their dreams deserved a chance.

Different backgrounds. Different lives. Different journeys, but every one of them has something powerful in common: they chose to use their voice.

That is why I created Don’t Shrink to Fit, to give women a space to be seen, heard, celebrated, and reminded that their story matters.

Because you do not need a title, a platform, or a perfect life to inspire someone.

Sometimes, you need the courage to tell the truth about your own.
Let's reach out to more people together; please vote for Top Host link is in my bio #tophost #womensupportingwomen #dontshrinktofit

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🎙️ Introducing She Leads, She Receives, a special interview series on The Polarity Podcast.

I'm honored to open it with love expert Riana Malia, Board Certified Integrative Neurosomatic Practitioner, featured on CBS, NBC, and Fox.

Together, we explore why so many high achieving women build extraordinary lives yet struggle to find love that matches them, and how rewiring the patterns beneath the surface changes everything.

Listen to this powerful conversation now through the link in my bio 🎧 Then take Riana's free Extraordinary Love Index at taketheeli.com 💜

@rianamalia

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Happy Friday afternoon, everybody! 💕 Take some time this weekend and really think about what I’m saying in this video…

When is the last time you took some time for YOU? And who’s taking care of YOU?

Because if you’re anything like me, you’re probably taking care of everybody and everything else—your business, your team, your family, your kids, your husband, your parents, your friends, your pets, your house, the emails, the appointments… ALL OF IT.

And somehow we end up at the bottom of our own list.

That is exactly why I created Camp Manifest. For two days, I want YOU to be taken care of. Incredible speakers and practitioners, manifestation, money, relationships, identity, resilience, wellness, movement, sound healing, amazing food, our Merch Gifting Shop, beautiful experiences, connection—and time to actually ask yourself, “What do I want 2027 to look like for ME?”

And if you really want to go deeper, add Blueprint Day: The Reset Before the Reset on January 22nd. It’s an intimate day in the Presidential Suite where we’re actually mapping out 2027, followed by our private VIP beach dinner that night. ✨

Camp Manifest Troop 2222 is January 23–24 at The Westin Lake Las Vegas Resort & Spa.

If something in you keeps saying, “I need this…” listen to it.

Choose yourself this time. 💗

Sign up here:
https://www.campmanifestretreat.com

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We have something exciting to share and we’d love your help supporting Riana Malia.

Riana @rianamalia is officially in the running for Top Host, and voting is now open. If she wins, iHeartRadio will produce a six-episode podcast with her, she’ll receive $25,000, and she’ll earn a guest spot on On Air with Ryan Seacrest.
And the timing couldn’t be more exciting.

Riana’s new show, The Last Piece™, is coming to the Motivation Success Network on Apple TV, Roku, and Amazon Fire.

Every guest on The Last Piece™ has built a life most people would love to have and Riana asks each of them the same question:
What is your last piece?

For some, it’s finding a love that finally matches the life they’ve built. For others, it’s faith, purpose, or learning how to hold on to everything they’ve worked so hard to create.

These are the conversations The Last Piece™ was created to bring into the open and winning Top Host would give Riana the opportunity to bring them to an even bigger audience.

You can vote for Riana for free once every 24 hours. If you’d like to support her, cast your vote here:
https://tophost.org/2026/riana-malia

We’re incredibly excited to have Riana and The Last Piece™ as part of the Motivation Success Network and we’d love to see our community get behind her.

#RianaMalia #TheLastPiece #TopHost2026 #TopHost #VoteForRiana #MotivationSuccess #MotivationSuccessNetwork #PodcastHost #PodcastCommunity #WomenInMedia #PurposeDriven #InspiringConversations #AppleTV #Roku #AmazonFireTV

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If you could sit beside your 20-something self for a moment, what would you tell her?

Here's what Riana Malia would say:

“You are so loved and you are so worthy of love—and just take a breath.”

Don't race.

Don't try to manage every outcome.

Just breathe.

Just be 20.

And perhaps there's something in that message for the person we are today, too.

❤️

🎧 Watch my full conversation with Riana:
https://youtu.be/2nkXwtS_QJI

Or listen wherever you get your podcasts.

Ep. 323 — Clear the Story, Create the Life: Who Are You Becoming?

#GirlTakeTheLead #RianaMalia #20SomethingSelf #YouAreWorthy #PersonalGrowth #SelfAwareness

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I didn’t expect this

But I was pleasantly surprised by last weekend’s @champagneclub.co event

Here’s what I didn’t expect:

1. How hungry these women were for nervous system work. The questions kept coming and I could barely get through the planned workshop, lol. (And they were GOOD, nuanced, smart questions, too.)

2. How many women in finance attended. I don’t know who called that in, but about half the women in the room were Financial Advisors, CFOs, bookkeepers, etc. Wow!

3. How many women brought each other, or were there because someone else who attended told them about the experience.

4. How tired I’d be. I handmade herbal Epsom salt gifts and @iamjakekauffman is usually there to help with the heavier things (literally). He was missed.

5. How many women pulled me aside and said, “I needed this, thank you.”

Grateful for every woman who walked through that curtain 🥂

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“We have to clear the story to create the life.” — Riana Malia

But what if we already know our stories and patterns?

Is knowing the same as changing?

That's part of what Riana Malia and I explore in today's new episode of Girl, Take the Lead!

We talk about identity, clarity, what we really want—and the beliefs and patterns that can keep us from creating something different.

I also share my own Extraordinary Love Index™ pattern:

“She Carries.”

Let's just say...I recognized her. 😊

🎧 Watch the full conversation:
https://youtu.be/2nkXwtS_QJI

Or listen wherever you get your podcasts.

Ep. 323 — Clear the Story, Create the Life: Who Are You Becoming?

#GirlTakeTheLead #RianaMalia #WomenInLeadership #PersonalGrowth #SelfAwareness #Relationships #Leadership

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Why Do I Keep Attracting the Same Person?
Different face. Same relationship.

Have you ever wondered why you keep attracting the same type of partner, even though you KNOW you want something different?

Riana Malia says our old patterns can continue influencing our choices long after we think we’ve moved past them. In our conversation, we talk about breaking those patterns, getting clear about what you truly want, and creating relationships that match the woman you are today.

If you’re ready to stop repeating the past, this episode of Secrets of Powerful Women is for you.
Links in comments or above in bio.

**Secrets of Powerful Women is the 4x award-winning podcast hosted by Jill Conway — media personality, former TV News reporter and women’s empowerment advocate. Each episode features candid conversations with extraordinary women across every industry, sharing the real stories behind their success, resilience, and reinvention. Made for women who are ready to own their power and write their next chapter. New episodes every week — subscribe so you never miss one.

#WomenOver40 #Dating #MidlifeWomen #Relationships #FindingLove

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You should never have to make yourself smaller to be loved.
Not less successful.
Not less ambitious.
Not less outspoken.
Not less YOU.

Riana Malia, NeuroSomatic Practitioner & Founder of the Extraordinary Love Index out of California, says high-achieving women can start chipping away at who they really are because they worry their success, personality, or independence might intimidate someone.

Hear me on this, The right relationship shouldn’t require you to become less of yourself.

We unpack it all- and talk about love, self-worth, relationships and finding extraordinary love and why we keep attracting the same type on this episode of Secrets of Powerful Women.

#SuccessfulWomen #WomenEmpowerment #WomenOver50 #SelfWorth #FindingLove WomenInLeadership PowerfulWomen

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Why do so many successful women have the career, confidence and independence they worked for, yet still struggle to find the love they truly want?

On this episode of Secrets of Powerful Women, I sit down with Riana Malia, a neurosomatic practitioner and creator of the Extraordinary Love Method, from San Francisco, California, to talk about finding love after 40 and 50, breaking unhealthy relationship patterns, self-worth and midlife reinvention.

We explore why high-achieving women may keep attracting the same type of relationship, why being strong and independent doesn’t mean you have to do everything yourself, and why you should never have to make yourself smaller to be loved.

Riana also shares how our past experiences can influence the relationships we choose today, and why starting over doesn’t mean it’s too late to find extraordinary love.

If you’re navigating dating after divorce, love after 50, starting over in midlife, or wondering why the same relationship patterns keep showing up, you’ll want to hear this conversation.

Watch Secrets of Powerful Women on YouTube, or listen on Spotify and Apple Podcasts.

#findingloveagain #relationships #love #dating #successfulwomen

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What if the thing standing between you and extraordinary love isn’t a lack of effort, insight, or self-awareness—but an old pattern running beneath the surface? ✨

In Episode 54 of the High Vibe Divorce Podcast, I sit down with Identity Architect Riana Malia to talk about why high-achieving women can create extraordinary success in nearly every area of life… yet still find themselves repeating patterns in love.

We explore the subconscious wiring behind who we trust, who we choose, and what feels familiar—and how clearing those patterns can create space for a completely different kind of relationship after divorce. 💗

Because your divorce doesn’t have to be the end of your love story. It might be the beginning of a much more aligned one.

🎧 Episode 54: Clearing Patterns to Create Extraordinary Love After Divorce, available now wherever you listen to podcasts. 🪷

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