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Back in 2019, my producing partner and I were asked to help write the press release for Romeo+Juliet w/ The Family Crest at The Den Theatre. PR asked for this because they couldn’t wrap their head around what it was.
Was it a play?
Was it a concert?
Was it a musical?
Was it dance?
Why on Earth is it only 3 nights (granted in a large 300 seat theatre that now houses comedian’s Netflix specials)?

Since we were co-collaborating with two larger names (the band and the theatre itself), and we were lo such babes on the Chicago scene thus far, we had to figure out how to describe who the hell we were when announcing our new collective next to some formidable entities.

We came up with ā€œaudacious newcomersā€.
(It has a nice ring to it, doesn’t it?)

Genuinely proud of ourselves and this press release we spent hours crafting, we were told PR was removing audacious newcomers since (and I quote) ā€œit sounds egotisticalā€.

Shocked at first, we turned it around and started calling ourselves ā€œAUDACIOUSā€ at every turn.
In rehearsals.On the street.About each other.About ourselves.
Loud- for the whole world to hear.

For this 3 night run, we were told, ā€œcritics would never come outā€, so they weren’t invited.
We were privvy to the number of tickets sold and the amount of marketing done, and it was bleak.
We were nervous at every turn about being the biggest flop the theatre had ever invested in.

Until we reclaimed AUDACIOUS.
And we decided to… what does Ted Lasso say? Oh yeah- BELIEVE.

I’ll save the longer story, but we sold out every seat, and audience members *still* message me about how much R+J meant to them.

Over the past 7 years, I lost my audaciousness, my blind ability to believe.
But today in meditation, I heard ā€œRemember who you are. You are Sam fucking Bianchiniā€.

And here’s the thing… YOU are ā€œ(FirstName) fucking (LastName)ā€, too.
We are all god in drag, fabulous and flawed together.
And your joyful audacity doesn’t take away from mine. In fact, it encourages it.

A woman having audacity changes the tides, like the moon herself.
And calling a woman egoic… well, let’s think about who that benefits.

It’s a šŸŒ• in Aries. 
Claim your fullness. It’s a gift to us all. by @samdarlin
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šŸ Song School (Volume 2!) šŸ 
Join us this Samhain - Solstice šŸŽƒ ā„ļø 

Darling friends~
I’m thrilled to announce that my dear friend @sacredwildsong and I are teaming up again to offer a second round of Song School.

After many years of folks asking us to share songs, we finally developed Song School in early 2026. Our first round started on Imbolc this year, and it was amazing.

We are teaming up again to offer a Samhain - Solstice offering, and would love to have you join.

Sundays November 1, November 29, and December 20
11am PST/2pm EST/7pm BST
(All recorded if you cannot join live)

-3x 90 minute live online classes that are recorded for you to keep forever
-12 sacred songs from various languages/traditions around the globe
-Digital song book and additional resources
-Private community space to share your journey and questions

Sliding Scale $99-$119

To register:
Venmo @sambianchini
Paypal/Zelle samfbianchini@gmail.com (friends and family option, please)

We would love to share this special space with you! by @samdarlin
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15 days ago
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Trying to make a video about how amazing Costa Rica is is real tough.
I just want to share so much wisdom.

It’s going to be amazing and I really think should be there.
I know I’m biased.
But I do think you’ll have the best week of your life.

December 5-12 🌊 
Santa Teresa, CR 🌺 
@house.of.shakti #
@bylombardi.chef by @samdarlin
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a month ago
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If you’re like me, you might be feeling overwhelmed in the ocean of technology. I’ve often said ā€œif my work didn’t depend on it, I wouldn’t be on social mediaā€. I tend to like the analog. My teachings and songs and even my art in theatre lends itself to being live, felt, embodied, tramissioned.

Because of that, I’ve only allowed myself connection online in a certain fashion. But I recognize that there are so many ways to create connection and community that perhaps I’m depriving myself of. There may be new ways I start to show up and connect on these platforms that stays authentic to who I really am- and maybe it’ll feel fucking fantastic.

For now, though… I am so happy/lucky/honored/fired up with what I’m getting to do on this planet. 
And I want to continue to work with you- to collaborate, to make art, to hold space with and for, to teach, to grow next to… you know, all the delicious things of being in this human body.

Slide through for some of the ways to work with me, collaborate with me, be it in the analog 3D or the live space.
From weekly classes, to events, to weekend trainings, to a retreat in Costa Rica, to 1:1 sessions, to artistic collaborations… I’m really excited about it all.

Love you. 
Let’s conquer the robots together through poetry and flesh.

Weekly classes!

Mondays @ 7:30pm
THE SANCTUARY: Restorative Yin
@lightandspace_la 

Thursdays @ 6pm
YINSHIP
@kinship_highlandpark

The most amazing week of your life.
Period.
(**maybe slight exaggeration if you love your marriage or won an academy award. But only slight**)

For absolutely everyone.
No prior yoga training necessary.
Part retreat.
Part embodied learning.
Part absolute empowerment and affirmation.

Retreat center: @house.of.shakti 
Chef: @bylombardi.chef 
Facilitator: šŸ™‹šŸ½ā€ā™€ļø
Location: Santa Teresa, Costa Rica
Community: you!

Come for the sunsets, stay for the eradication of capitalism from the body.

All info in bio or reach out!

Ok for real though…
I’m lucky I have three jobs that I love deeply (artist, teacher, ceremonialist).

But my number one love will always be the theatre.

Let’s make stuff.
I want to collab with you.
Acting. Directing. Full plays. One nights. Readings in liv by @samdarlin
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ā€œAm I ok?ā€
ā€œYes, you’re ok. In fact, you’re better than ok.
You’re alive.ā€

Welcome to our Silverlake era šŸ¤ taken in Silver Lake by @samdarlin
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a month ago
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I wrote something wildly controversial and deeply important.
Don’t Get a Dog.
It’s the first thing I’ve posted to my substack, For the Wonder.
The link is in my profile, and I’m really happy to share it with the world.
If it could be useful for someone in your life, please share it.
And please… don’t get a dog. by @samdarlin
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2 months ago
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I’ve been thinking about currency in our modern world, and what it means to be wealthy, like, truly wealthy.

I am ever more increasingly abundant in the warmth and joy of a love so storybook AND human, it surpasses what tiny characters on a screen could convey.
Add a bonus small (not so small) person into the mix that I get to call step son? Get ready to be in the 1%.

I am wealthy beyond compare with community.
I am sickeningly full with the sweetness of the beauty of good food, good wine, and good adventure.

Did you know you can die from being so rich? It’s called owning a dog.
I’ve died a thousand times since having Guy and Buho.

If spirituality was measured by true pleasure in life (and I believe it is- come on, you can’t tell me the Big Bang wasn’t the Big Orgasm and that spirituality isn’t sensual when we have chocolate…), I’d burst at the seams.

If we were paid by the times someone said ā€œyou’ve changed my lifeā€, well… I’d have more money than the goddess herself.

This is the truest currency, and it’s an act of resistance to all the bitter systems and bitter folks.

There’s too little time in this gorgeous existence to not be dripping in abundance, and I pray for us all to remove the shackles that keep us from dancing in the gold.

šŸ“ø from the wild/one of my fave shoots with @pollaktwins by @samdarlin
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2 months ago
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LA, we are so back! Next Tuesday, August 18th, come join us at @barcovell covell for The Downpour: OPEN MIC!
We have a curated line up, sure.. but the evening is set in the spirit of an open mic, encouraging the most generosity possible between performers and audience, creating that warm glow of collective effervescence that we all so dearly need in this time.
Come see performers try new music, or perhaps share their writing for the first time in years, or work out new comedy in real time.
It’s going to be a damn good night! Come drink wine with friends, eat a flatbread, laugh with beautiful humans, and leave with hope and inspiration.
Tickets only $5-$25 in the link in profile, and all proceeds go directly to the artists.
It’s casual, fun, and the communal vibes we all live for…
See you at Covell! taken in Bar Covell by @samdarlin
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2 months ago
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Two days late, but with all the heart…

Happiest of 8/8’s to the most handsome husband I could dream of.

Three years ago, our lives changed in a small patient room in San Gabriel.
Three years of being shook that love can feel like this.
Three years of joy and play and laughter and tears.
Three years of safety.
Three years of growth.
Three years of you.

I’m so glad I wasn’t asked to design my perfect partner.
They wouldn’t be anywhere as amazing as the real you.

You are the most devoted husband, father, friend, and dog owner. 
Our community is beyond lucky.

To all the 8/8’s forever more, and finding you in all the realms after this.

Unbreakable. by @samdarlin
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2 months ago
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My first July 18th without you in 15 years, my Guy.

I love you the most, and I miss you every day.
Thank you for showing up in all the rainbows.
You remain the most legendary until this day. 
There are no words, but just know… I’m holding on to the light. by @samdarlin
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3 months ago
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NOURISH: A Soulful 50hr Restorative+Yin Yoga Training
Dec 5-12, 2026, Costa RicašŸŒ…

Friends- I am so over the moon invite you to join me for 8 days, 7 nights for a rich and life-affirming study of Restorative+Yin YogašŸ§˜šŸ½ā€ā™€ļø 

A PERSONAL NOTE: After years of students asking me for a training in restorative/yin, I created this course around the idea that YOU ARE THE MEDICINE. Over 45 folks have taken this training around the world, and it is magic. I’m honored to bring it to my second home of Santa Teresa in the BEAUTIFUL new space of @house.of.shakti 🌺

For over a decade, I have immersed myself in the teachings of tantra yoga, sat at the feet of many indigenous lineages, and devoted myself to the artful architecture of holding healing space. This training is a culmination of the wisdom I’ve collected, and it is also a lab for you to discover your own unique medicine, and how to weave that into holding spacešŸŒ™

This training is for everyone! No prior yoga training necessary!
For those who belong to Yoga Alliance, you’ll receive 50 CE hours.
As always, scholarships avail for BIPOC fam🌹

WHAT’S INCLUDED:
*8 days/7 Nights accommodation on mountain to views
*3 Gorgeous Meals Daily
*Soulful Morning Yoga
*Nightly Nourishing Classes+Ceremonies (Restorative, Yin, Nidra, Breathwork, Cacao +more)
*50hr Inspiring and Masterful Training in Restorative+Yin 
*Nightly Sunsets :)
*One group sauna+ice bath
*Optional temezcal with medicine woman Maria Milago
*Community, Impeccably Held Spaces, an Unforgettable Experience

Retreat Center: House of Shakti, up above the hill from Playa Hermosa. Perhaps the most amazing retreat center around.🌱

Our Chef: @bylombardi.chef and I met many years ago. He’s a super star, and his food is central to our week together.šŸ“

I have said before and will say again- truly one of the best things I have done with my life is to create and offer this week. 
December is also the most magical time in ST- plus come hang with me right before my 40th ;)

Space is limited to 13- so secure your spot soon šŸ§œšŸ½ā€ā™€ļø 
Info in biošŸ¦‹ by @samdarlin
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Discipline vs Devotion by @samdarlin
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