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Together for Christmas Eve! 🎄🎅🏽✨
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Happy Tuesday. 

I wrote on twitter what my therapist explained to me has been wrong with me lately and it resonated with a good deal of folks so I’ll summarize here, too. 

When we experience high levels of stress over and over we THINK we r better at dealing w it, but we actually habituated to it emotionally AND physically. It manifests as burnout and fatigue. 

If we actually experienced it all at once, instead of a gradual increase we’d be like F NO. THIS IS TOO MUCH. 

But, because it was gradual, it’s like stress exposure therapy...and we tolerate it until we r like “hey, why am I SO tired?” Oh you know...just work, advocacy, family, the pandemic, LITERALLY ALL LIFE.

The good news, I’ve been told, is “once there is awareness, empowerment becomes possible.” (Quote my therapist)

Maybe we aren’t just “busy” and “tired” when people ask how we are but if we actually checked in w/ ourselves we would say “I’m feeling checked out, is it possible this is what stress is?” YUP.
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See Also: “Over It” “Seriously?” “F2020”
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I have had some job changes over the pandemic....and it feels a bit like this only behind the door is just a computer and hours of zoom patients.
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