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hi. im not engaged but im ok i promise. follow the adventures of my unwed left hand. © #blessed

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Saw this and immediately thought of @notengaged.
because when ur #notengaged u can stay at the swim-up bar as long as you want and u don’t have to have another argument with mark because he refuses to play the cabana boy. and no one is pounding on the door like “babe i need the bathroom for my 3pm constitutional”. ok but i really need u to stop ruining the mood k thx. #blessed

Okay, but seriously now, who’s gonna bring me another #daiquiri?
#quaratinelife #insta-spiration #isolatedbuthappy #swimupbar

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Happy almost summer to me! Might be quarantined alone but that’s not going to stop me from ordering a date night cheese box for one 🍾🧀

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When Women Support Each Other Incredible Things Happen 💓 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀ ⠀ ⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀ I’m tagging some of my favorite female-led positive accounts!
@i_weigh
@thewaywemet
@goodtype
@notengaged
@voicesofhope ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Don’t forget to look out and support your ladies. There are so many amazing women out there doing great things, big or small, and with all the negativity in the world, the least we can do is support and respect them. ✨ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ This design is up in my shop (link in bio) and it is also available as a wallpaper (check my story) for y’all 🌸

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If you're single, prioritising a balanced diet around your busy lifestyle can become a bit of a task! 😣 However, we believe that a balanced diet should be of the utmost importance, especially when you're trying to perform at your peak at work. 💹⁠
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Try out these four tips for grocery shopping for one and tag the friend that you want to take shopping with you! 🛒⁠
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#fuelyourlife #diet #dietitian #health #dietetics #nutrition #nutritionist #food #foods #quote #quoteoftheday #quotes #instagood #instaquote #qotd #instahealth #healthyfood #healthyfoods #wholefoods #healthyeat #morning #singles #single #tinder #work

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Voilà un post que je leur dédie tellement je suis reconnaissante de les avoir auprès de moi dans les bons comme les moins bons moments.
Si toi aussi tu es fièr(e) d'avoir des Ami(/e)s comme ça, partage ce post 💕.
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Bisous les p'tits coeurs et take care 💕.
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#amour #love #instadaily #instamood #lavieestbelle #instagood #igers #ecrire #lecture #writer #livrestagram #motivation #penseedujour #art #ecrivaine #celibat #bookstagram #litterature #livres #romans #texte #blogging #blogger #worldpress #thegirlgang #bloggerproblems #ontheblog #bloggerlife #writerscommunity #creativjournal

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Who else has confidently given slightly wrong directions? Just us New Yorkers... love this definition by @notengaged on our throwback to episode 10 of the Podcast!

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70’s themed engagements for a 70’s themed wedding ?? 💿💃🏼🕺🏼 I think HELL YES!! Finally have a good excuse to bring out the flare jeans 💫 (first ones posted blurry whoops)

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A Corona Proof Proposal .... + some white claws and champagne pops to celebrate??? I THINK YES 💍💍 CONGRATS YOU TWO

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🤣 They wouldn't tell me what was so funny.
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#chicagophotographer #chicagoengagementphotos #chicagoweddingphotographer #weddingphotography #engagementphotographer #engagementphotos #chitownlove #youngandinlove #newlyengaged #chicagoriverwalk #riverwalkphotos #engagements #canon5dmarkiv #canonphotos #portrait_mood #cutestcouples #couplesofinstagram #shesaidyes #hyphenationstation #portraitphotographer #savethedates #savethedate #goldenhour @lincolnparkzoo

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Lockdown birthday guide live. Link in bio! 🙌🏽 #birthdayguide #birthdaygirl #lockdownguide #lockdownbirthday

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“Shortcomings”
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“I want him to be confident—like, really confident. And funny; I’m attracted to people who are quick-witted. And social—extraverted. Not awkward. Oh, and I’m into guys who are intelligent and who are capable of having deep, interesting conversations.”
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My therapist, Adam, had just asked me what traits I typically looked for in a partner. I had thought about this more than a few times before, so the list was easy to generate. Patterns in my romantic interests were clear—and not just to me.
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“Do you see?” he asked carefully.
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“See what?” I replied.
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“Remind me of the things you see yourself lacking.”
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Oh.
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I silently reviewed all the shortcomings I had believed about myself. They had been the subject of many therapy sessions, naturally. I believed that I was awkward. That I was as unfunny as they could come, a hopeless storyteller. That I was too shy, too introverted, too fragile. That I wasn’t charismatic or smart or confident enough.
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When it clicked, I actually laughed aloud. It was almost too perfect.
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Of course, these shortcomings were only products of my vivid imagination; they were simply old narratives born from painful experiences, replaying again and again in a sensitive body and mind. I understand now, and even knew intellectually then, that “enough” of any of these traits was an arbitrary target, and one that would move further out of reach if I arrived at it without therapy and self-reflection.
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“Well, what can I do about that?” I asked. I was focused on finding a certain kind love. I wanted to date. Specifically, I wanted to date successfully.
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I answered my own question before Adam had time to.
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You work on loving you.
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#therapy #shame #enough #love #lovestories #loveyourself #selflove #watercolor #watercolorpainting #artistsoninstagram #art #becomingallie #vulnerability #lovewins #dating #datingsucks #datingadvice #iamenough

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💓 Love on the @chicago_riverwalk
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#chicagophotographer #chicagoengagementphotos #chicagoweddingphotographer #weddingphotography #engagementphotographer #engagementphotos #chitownlove #youngandinlove #newlyengaged #chicagoriverwalk #riverwalkphotos #engagements #canon5dmarkiv #canonphotos #portrait_mood #cutestcouples #couplesofinstagram #shesaidyes #hyphenationstation #portraitphotographer #savethedates #savethedate #goldenhour

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