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Women’s Voice Advocate •Community Curator
The Internet’s Big Sis ♡ @betterfriendsociety
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📍Dallas/SATX/Austin
Jesus Lover

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There’s something so special about this season of my life.

Watching our families come together, seeing my nephews enjoy themselves, sharing laughs, and simply being present with the people I love.

I’ve been finding so much joy in the simple things. More days like this puhleaaaseeee cause I truly loveeeeee this season 🙏🏾

#familytime #couple #datenight #fitcheck #blacklove

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Let a girl mess up, it’s over— but a man? 😂😂 we really had such a nourishing conversation. Please do yourself a favor and catch the rest of this conversation on YouTube and all other podcast platforms under “the Prolific Collective” #womenshealth #bff #forgiveness #relationships

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A long term friendship should come with a long grace.

When someone has walked with you through multiple seasons and versions of yourself, one difficult moment should not automatically erase years of love, loyalty and shared history.

In this conversation, Tosin and I reflect on Oprah and Gayle’s enduring friendship and what long-term relationships teach us about grace. Healthy friendships are not free from conflict, disappointment or misunderstanding. They are built by women who are willing to communicate, repair and leave room for each other to grow.

Female friendship is not just part of our social lives. It can profoundly shape our emotional health, our resilience and our ability to move through life feeling seen and supported.

The full conversation is available now on The Prolific Collective Podcast.

What has a long-term friendship taught you about grace?

#longetivity #FemaleFriendship #HealthyFriendships #WomensHealth #FriendshipGoals

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What happens when you have to leave a friendship? How do we navigate the turbulence and the difficulties around saying goodbye without harshness…. We get into it on this on the next episode of the @theprolificco this Sunday. Cannot wait for for you all to hear this genuine and healing conversation on female friendships

#womenshealth #friendship #bff #love #conflict

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The walk brought us together, the women made it what it was. 🖤

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Got to sit down with the incredible @thetoexperience the internets big sis and community convener of @betterfriendsociety ; yall are going to want to send this to all your group chats! Episode drops This Sunday night at 6pm cst #bff #girlfriend #friendship #womenshealth

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Better woman, better friend, better community. See you tomorrow for the final Step & Sip of 2026. 💓

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BFS ✘ Bloom ⚡️Free energy drinks for the girls this Saturday, at Step & Sip 3.

Thank you for pouring into the society. 💓 @bloomsupps

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Still on cloud nine 🥂✨

A night filled with love, family, friendship, good food, beautiful details, and amazing people who know how to have a good time 🙂‍↔️🕺🏾

Seeing Love in Full Bloom come together was such a moment 🌺🍊

And somewhere in the middle of all the planning, pictures, champagne toastsss and celebrating, I kept looking over at my fiancé thinking……wow. THIS IS REALLY HAPPENING!

We’re really getting married. 🥹🤍

The details ✨
📸 @bigshots.photos
🎨 + 💐 @dash.of.glamm
🎂 @heb
🍽️ @thejerkshacksatx
💄 @beautibybree

And to our family and friends who celebrated with us, thank you for loving us so loudly 🤍

#engagementparty #loveinfullbloom #engaged #couple

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“One of the biggest distinctions between a friend and a frenemy is reciprocity.” @thetoexperience @betterfriendsociety Lets talk about it!

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COMMENT "FACTS" BESTIE & BROS BRUNCH 11.14.26

Repost by: @thetoexperience 💕
Release should never be your first response to conflict in friendship.

We live in a culture that is quick to say, “Cut her off,” but I believe friendship requires wisdom, grace, accountability, and discernment.

Before you release them, have you checked in with yourself? Have you communicated? Have you given her an opportunity to understand the hurt? Have you looked at the friendship as a whole instead of reacting to one moment? Have you prayed about it?

But sis… there are also times when you’ve done the work.

You’ve communicated. You’ve extended grace. You’ve tried to reconcile. You’ve prayed. And yet, the same harmful patterns continue—with no accountability, no remorse, and no real effort to change.

That’s when release may be necessary.

You do not have to continuously give someone access to you simply because you have history with them. Sometimes walking away is the healthiest decision you can make.

But let release be a decision made with clarity, not anger. Wisdom, not impulse. Discernment, not emotion.

And if you’re ready to surround yourself with women who are committed to becoming better and showing up better in friendship, comment “BFS” and I’ll send you information on joining the Better Friend Society. 💕

-Signed, Big Sis 🫶🏾💕

#friend #friends #friendship #friemdshipgoals #encouragement

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Friendship doesn’t thrive on convenience. It thrives on intentionality.

Being a good friend means choosing to show up, check in, communicate, make time, and nurture the relationships that matter to you.

@thetoexperience was dropping gems!
🎥 New video OUT NOW on YouTube!

Watch, share, and tell us: What does being intentional in friendship look like to you?

Follow @BetterFriendSociety on Instagram for more conversations about building deeper, healthier friendships and regular meet ups!

https://youtu.be/8_iczMs5GpA?is=6XDXBlyItsZ_bTB1

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