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Had the pleasure of welcoming Wayne from Shades of Non-Monogamy and his family into our space.

We got into some real conversations about men, relationships, intimacy, and the things we don’t always talk about openly.

Here’s a little piece of our conversation about men and empty sex. Sometimes the conversations we need most are the ones we avoid.

Much love to Wayne and the family for stopping by! 💯

🎙️ @wayne.lesane | @shades_of_nonmonogamy

➕ Follow for more real conversations.

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Riding out to the @pleasure.psych @losangelessextherapy retreat in Joshua Tree with @unforbiddenlifestyle @wayne.lesane @shades_of_nonmonogamy! We're all looking forward to a weekend of growth, learning, and sx positive community!

Bonus shoutout to @ericasmith.educates since I'm hauling her book into the desert to share with all the colleagues!

#sexeducation #sexology

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Welcome back to the Los Angeles Sex Therapy Team Video Interview Series founded by Moushumi Ghose, MFT.

In this interview series, we introduce you to the coaches and therapists at LAST so you can get to know them by hearing their voices, seeing their faces, and learning more about their unique approaches to this work, and why they love doing what they do!

This week, we meet with Wayne LeSane, CSRC who shares insights into what inspired him into becoming a sex coach, what it’s like to work with him, and also some fun facts about him along the way!

Wayne was born in Washington, D.C., in 1971 and was raised in a culture of repressed emotions. Throughout his life’s journeys, travel, and gained experiences, he was able to unlearn many of the biases he learned as a child around intimacy, sex, and relationships.

He was consciously non-monogamous for about 25 years, including his current relationship and marriage of 19 years.

He absolutely loves talking about sex and relationships, especially dating culture and non-monogamy with anyone who is open to engaging and exploring. His strength lies in his ability to help folks see all the options that are truly in front of them and to help make their desires a reality by getting as creative as they want to be.

You can work with Wayne @losangelessextherapy at lastcollective.org! #coaching #nonmonogamy #relationships #intimacy #communication

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Starting over isn’t always easy. It takes courage and oftentimes, community. Enmeshment in partnerships can lead to a certain fusion of identities and loss of individuality. Redefining yourself outside of former roles you’ve been socialized in and affirming yourself in your own sense of individuality can be a powerful act of reclamation. And as always, find your people. #community #grief #loss #breakup #divorce

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Our audience wanted to know— what’s the low down on modern dating apps? Of course we’re here for Real Talk— and our Sexperts dose out raw truths.

For some people, it might be worth ditching the apps and getting “out into the wild.” For others it might be practicing more discernment between dating apps and hook up apps, as well as leaning into more intentionality.

There’s no one right way to date. Give yourself permission to explore, have fun, and enjoy the process while you learn the art of loving yourself! . #dating #relationships #education #intimacy #realtalkwiththesexperts

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The question? How do you handle jealousy in a nonmonogomous relationship and deal with it in a healthy way?

From taking the time to acknowledge, name, process, and have the important conversations with the people that we need to the most—-

We don’t have to fear our jealousy, or vilify it. And we don’t have to harbor it on our own.

Tune in to hear what our Sexperts @jmosley_humansxuality and
@jordanlcosten have to say on the matter.

Catch the replay on YouTube and join us next month for more Real Talk! 🔥
#nonmonogamy #education #jealousy #relationships #mentalhealth

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Kinky Bingo! Happy Hour! Wanna Play? Don’t forget to RSVP

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Up now: Episode 29 of the Shades of Pleasure podcast, where Mou, Melissa, Wayne, and Kelly, four intimacy and relationship professionals, explore the harm caused by silence and complicity in the face of oppression.

We are all taught stories about how people are “supposed” to live, love, express themselves, and build relationships. While each of us has the right to make our own choices, dominant cultural narratives, particularly those rooted in conservative religious ideology and colonial systems, have caused profound harm for many communities. These narratives continue to reinforce objectification, exploitation, victim blaming, and the stigmatization of people who exist outside of what society has labeled as “normal.” Black, Brown, Indigenous, queer, immigrant, disabled, and other marginalized communities continue to bear the weight of these systems every day.

Check out the full episode at our Substack ~> Pleasure For the Masses

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Join Us for an evening of Fun With A Twist!

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LAST was in the house - we are so grateful to get to meet so many amazing folks. Thank you to @dykedayla for putting on such an amazing event for the community and giving us the opportunity to show up and do the work we love. PRIDE FOREVER 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️⚧️💕💗

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