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Fünf Wochen Vater. Muss der Prinz jetzt sterben?

Die letzten Jahre waren leicht. Die Freiheit kam, als der Glaubenssatz „nur harte Arbeit ist wertvoll“ durchschaut wurde. Müheloser Erfolg stellte sich ein, und mit ihm eine Zeit, in der das Leben vor allem aus Genuss bestand. Ich war der Prinz mit dem Kelch, dem die Schönheit, die Frauen, die Lust einfach zuflossen.

In dieser Phase wurde ich regelmässig gewarnt: Wenn das Kind kommt, muss der Prinz sterben. Dann wird es ernst.

Bereits nach fünf Wochen zeigt sich etwas anderes.

Der Prinz stirbt nicht. Er wird integriert. Die Verbindung zum Genuss, zur Sinnlichkeit, zur Lust am Leben macht mich zu einem besseren Vater, nicht zu einem schlechteren. Weil meine Tochter von Anfang an einen lebendigen Mann erlebt, der weiss wie man das Leben geniesst.

Heute sitze ich nicht mehr nur da und schwenke den Wein im Kelch. Ich bin präsent. Ich übernehme Verantwortung. Nicht nur für meine Tochter, sondern auch für meine Frau, damit auch sie die sexy Prinzessin bleibt, die ich kennengelernt habe, und sich im Muttersein nicht selbst vergisst.

Und mitten darin weiß ich immer noch, wie gut es sich anfühlt, morgens zu tanzen, täglich Zeit in der Natur zu verbringen, Mahlzeiten wirklich zu genießen und lebendig zu sein.  Ich spüre, dass kaum ein Schritt die Entwicklung eines Mannes ab einem bestimmten Punkt so beschleunigt wie der zum Vater.

Aber da ist auch eine Gefahr. Wer nie vom Bettler zum Prinzen wurde, wer nie gelernt hat zu genießen, den drängt der gesellschaftliche Druck zu früh in die Rolle. Eine Stufe wird übersprungen. Der Konflikt bleibt und wächst im Stillen. Ich sehe diesen Widerspruch gerade in vielen Vätern.

Wie ein Mann Vater wird, ohne sich dabei zu verlieren, und wie er die Polarität in der Beziehung lebendig hält, ist eine der wenigen Fragen, die mich wirklich interessieren.

Wenn Du wissen willst, wie das aussieht, im echten Leben, mit Kind, Frau, Arbeit und allem, was dazugehört, dann bleib dran. Weitere Tagebuch-Einträge folgen.

#ChainlessDADDY

Art by @___tynah___ 📸

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The last two months in Peter Pan mode on my isla bonita. ❤️ [Photo Dump]

1-3) Some of my favorite shots of our surprise baby shower for @yadaaah shot by @janiyina 📸 🫧 🥰

4) Professional foodies in their natural habitat.

5) 🏴‍☠️

6) Kids forever. (especially with Kids) 😄

7) Sexy gym crew at your service. 😜

8) Thanks to everyone who supported me by getting my book. ❤️‍🔥

9) Weekly dancing keeps the belly glowing even when the bump keeps growing.

10) Next goal: 60 seconds

11) The moment when you realize that more women than men are reading your book. 😄

12) The moment when you find some Candid jewels on your phone. 🥰

13) Hanging in there at 100kg

14) Artists at work.

15) So much love on Amazon recently. 🥹

The last month has officially started. Getting ready for our little girl while enjoying our last days as prince and princess. Koh Phangan is definitely the perfect island for both, nesting and never growing up. An island I’ve been in love with since 2018. 🤍

#ChainlessLIFE #ChainlessLOVE

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Trailblazers 🔥✨

a week of creating content for powerful individuals in the community who are consistently stepping into their power and sharing their gifts with the world ❤️🙏🏽

it is an honor to encapsulate and create for each and everyone of these souls

the time is now family, no more playing small, share your gifts and shine unapologetically 🔥

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What are you committed to in 2023? Let’s raise the collective!

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So I turned 32 this week and I thought I’ll share one of my deepest learnings with you:

Life is a gift. But this gift is not for us to keep.

Eventually we have to face our own mortality and realize that the goal of life is not about the glorification of ourselves. At least not for long.

Once you’ve satisfied more and more of your ego needs, you will eventually start to wake up.

Hint: Don’t rush this process, celebrate it as long as it lasts. (I‘m not fully done yet.) 😄

So what is the goal of life?

That’s a tricky one to realize, it took me 32 years to really get it, so I have to further explain:

We are just a vessel for the goal.

A vessel full of life force. (some people like to call it energy.)

It‘s not our time that is running out, since time is just a concept.

It‘s our energy, our life force that is slowly fading away day after day.

So with that acknowledgment, the important questions that remain are:

- Where are you choosing to focus your energy to?

- Are you even aware that you have a choice?

- Or are you running through life completely reactive?

Those questions will lead you into the right direction.

The way I approached it was this:

First you have to become AWARE to the understanding, that the PURPOSE of life is to ALLOW the force of life to run trough you, acknowledging that life is playing you like an instrument, rather than you trying to impose your reactive mind’s will onto what already is. That’s when you reach a INTUITIVE feeling of equanimity and primal trust in your deepest heart that nobody will ever be able to take away from you. Because you know you are on PURPOSE.

Part 2 in the comments ⬇️

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Our annual Mexico camper soiree.
The perfect way to round up our Tulum vortex each year.

We put this together in 3 days with the aim of uniting the campers we connect with most along our journey. Introducing them to places and faces they do not know and remind each other of the magic of community. As with each Happy Camper Showcase utterly impressed by the energy that unfolds.

Shout out to everyone who made it all the way out to the Neek lagoon, big thanks to Muan and Matt for all the hard work getting this together, all the artists who brought their own rays of love, neek and its crew, the ladies at the door, Nick, Kris and Mathilde.. Happy Camper appreciates you <3

New showcase plans in the works. Ibiza is next

@neektulum @discostabu @nickdevucht @krislathouwers @durango95music @wassman2 @sis_music_official @elifmusique @ricoloopmusic @katesilver.xoo @sonic_enchantment_lusid_alquem @yadaaah @doe_deer @undersmusic @happycamper_records

Music by @gidgeofficial

#happycampershowcase #tulumparty #tulum #mexico #lagoon #elif #unders #ricoloop

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First Leg Trip 23
Vermont>Jersey>Miami>Orlando
#roadtrip #happynewyear #2023 #roadwarrior #diesel #x5 #gorillaz #ontheroad #florida #porsche911 #ratrod #italiangreyhound #musicproducer #gt3 #fairies #beaches #sunsets #peace #love #otis

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Tantra is the path to unconditional love allowing for the life, force energy to flow smoothly in your physical body.

when we release and let go, we allow for the energy to flow and that is how we access our limitless potential and that’s a space with no boundaries or anything is possible, and nothing is holding you back from being the fullest expression, creating a bigger impact in the world

Book a call now, and let’s get that stagnant energy out of the body

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You got a story and you? You got a message do you need to share with others to have been transformed their lives? Are you ready to unleash your full potential using human design?… create a contact from the heart… do those things you’re uncomfortable doing so you can grow and show up authentically fully..
Are you ready to package your skills, gifts and wisdom into a course that is monetize a pool and creates a massive impact on people all around the world because they can purchase it from anywhere and transform their lives .

Stop playing small! You are as big as the universal it’s time you start acting like it.

click the link in the bio and let’s get this party started .

#shineyourlight #alanwatts #transcend #selflovesunday #tribe #aligned #personalpower #mindfulnesscoach #positiveaffirmations #innerpeace #awakenedsoul #shadowwork #selfimage #soulguidance #reparenting #powerofthemind #energyiseverything #openyourmind #limitingbeliefs #soulcoach #spiritual #soulwork #soulsearching #selfhealers #purpose #vulnerability

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Le Jardín D''Eden

#performance #snake #aftermovie #dance #boa #shibari #mindfulness #playful #bondage #sensualfruits #feelthefruits

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To be able to connect, to feel, to touch, to listen, to understand, to love, to take and to give is what makes life so divine.

Happy Monday 🫶

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#kamafloat #kamaflight #wateryoga #waterdance #watermeditation #surrender #letgo #somatichealing

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Amanecer wooomon 23 #tulúm #amanecer #tribal #tulum🌴 #googmorning #goodtype #goodvideo #goodfeeling

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