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Don’t expect people to change in a relationship. 
Don’t expect people to change in a relationship. 
Ready for a sigh of relief? 👇 If you’re in a healthy relationship that you really want to work… But you’re feeling doubtful, or confused, or can’t stop overthinking things… It does NOT automatically mean you need to or “should” leave the relationship. You may be experiencing a little something called relationship anxiety (which is often a symptom of some deeper stuff goin’ on). Deeper stuff like insecurity, fears, and leftover stuff from your past (maybe from what you saw growing up, or past relational experiences). I get it, because I’ve been there (and it took me years to understand what the heck was goin’ on). And the good news is that assuming you’re in a healthy relationship without dealbreakers, what often contributes to relationship anxiety is some combination of your own beliefs, patterns, or fears that keep getting in your way. Why is this good news? Well, because then that means you don’t have to wait around for your partner to change or something in the relationship dynamic to change before the anxiety decreases. This was a huge weight off my shoulders because I never wanted to leave my relationship, and I also didn’t want to continue feeling anxious forever. So instead, what I did was to dive deep into my own beliefs, patterns, and fears around love and relationships (which I believe would come up in whichever intimate relationship I was in). That was when I was finally able to get out of my own way and create more helpful beliefs and patterns in my relationship (and life), and feel less caught up by my fears. If you want to better understand relationship anxiety and get a free curated collection of resources to help you navigate it more confidently, just comment (or DM me the word) ROADMAP and it’ll kick off the delivery process for my free guide, the Relationship Anxiety Roadmap 🗺️ Oh, and PS—just know you are NOT alone. There are over 220,000 people in the online You Love and You Learn community (across IG + TT) #relationshipanxiety #relationshipocd #rocd #relationshipcoach #relationshipsupport #relationshiptips
Ready for a sigh of relief? 👇 If you’re in a healthy relationship that you really want to work… But you’re feeling doubtful, or confused, or can’t stop overthinking things… It does NOT automatically mean you need to or “should” leave the relationship. You may be experiencing a little something called relationship anxiety (which is often a symptom of some deeper stuff goin’ on). Deeper stuff like insecurity, fears, and leftover stuff from your past (maybe from what you saw growing up, or past relational experiences). I get it, because I’ve been there (and it took me years to understand what the heck was goin’ on). And the good news is that assuming you’re in a healthy relationship without dealbreakers, what often contributes to relationship anxiety is some combination of your own beliefs, patterns, or fears that keep getting in your way. Why is this good news? Well, because then that means you don’t have to wait around for your partner to change or something in the relationship dynamic to change before the anxiety decreases. This was a huge weight off my shoulders because I never wanted to leave my relationship, and I also didn’t want to continue feeling anxious forever. So instead, what I did was to dive deep into my own beliefs, patterns, and fears around love and relationships (which I believe would come up in whichever intimate relationship I was in). That was when I was finally able to get out of my own way and create more helpful beliefs and patterns in my relationship (and life), and feel less caught up by my fears. If you want to better understand relationship anxiety and get a free curated collection of resources to help you navigate it more confidently, just comment (or DM me the word) ROADMAP and it’ll kick off the delivery process for my free guide, the Relationship Anxiety Roadmap 🗺️ Oh, and PS—just know you are NOT alone. There are over 220,000 people in the online You Love and You Learn community (across IG + TT) #relationshipanxiety #relationshipocd #rocd #relationshipcoach #relationshipsupport #relationshiptips
You leave a relationship knowing it wasn’t right… but instead of slowing down, healing, and setting new standards — you jump into the next one that feels different. Not because it is… but because it’s familiar. When you’re used to not getting consistent attention, even the wrong kind can feel like connection. 🫶🏼 If you’re ready to stop repeating this cycle and start choosing relationships that actually feel safe, I can help — book a 1:1 coaching session through the link in my bio. Xo #relationshippatterns #toxicrelationships #selfsabotage #datingadviceforwomen #lifecoach
You leave a relationship knowing it wasn’t right… but instead of slowing down, healing, and setting new standards — you jump into the next one that feels different. Not because it is… but because it’s familiar. When you’re used to not getting consistent attention, even the wrong kind can feel like connection. 🫶🏼 If you’re ready to stop repeating this cycle and start choosing relationships that actually feel safe, I can help — book a 1:1 coaching session through the link in my bio. Xo #relationshippatterns #toxicrelationships #selfsabotage #datingadviceforwomen #lifecoach
As a divorce mediator and divorce recovery specialist of 25+ years, here’s what I tell women in this situation: Stop focusing on him. Stop analyzing him. Stop trying to change him. Stop wondering if he’s the problem. Stop asking everyone whether you should stay or leave. And start focusing on yourself. Because most women are trying to make one of the biggest decisions of their lives while carrying years of unhealed wounds, self-abandonment, fear, and exhaustion. The answer isn’t another conversation about him. The answer is you. Your patterns. Your fears. Your triggers. Your relationship blueprint. Here’s what I’ve seen thousands of times: When you heal yourself, the answer comes. You either gain the tools to rebuild the relationship. Or you gain the clarity to leave it. Either way, you stop living in limbo. If you’re stuck between “I can’t keep doing this” and “I don’t want to destroy my family,” stop focusing on him and start focusing on yourself. Comment DECISION and I’ll send you my free masterclass that will help you find the clarity you’re looking for. #marriage #healingjourney #emotionalhealing #divorce #breakthecycle
As a divorce mediator and divorce recovery specialist of 25+ years, here’s what I tell women in this situation: Stop focusing on him. Stop analyzing him. Stop trying to change him. Stop wondering if he’s the problem. Stop asking everyone whether you should stay or leave. And start focusing on yourself. Because most women are trying to make one of the biggest decisions of their lives while carrying years of unhealed wounds, self-abandonment, fear, and exhaustion. The answer isn’t another conversation about him. The answer is you. Your patterns. Your fears. Your triggers. Your relationship blueprint. Here’s what I’ve seen thousands of times: When you heal yourself, the answer comes. You either gain the tools to rebuild the relationship. Or you gain the clarity to leave it. Either way, you stop living in limbo. If you’re stuck between “I can’t keep doing this” and “I don’t want to destroy my family,” stop focusing on him and start focusing on yourself. Comment DECISION and I’ll send you my free masterclass that will help you find the clarity you’re looking for. #marriage #healingjourney #emotionalhealing #divorce #breakthecycle
I just feel like this needs to be said because it seems like all you hear on this app is why you should leave your toxic partner, so here’s a different message: You don’t have to! If you’re having a hard time in your relationship but there’s no abuse, aggression, or manipulation and you love them and you both want to make it work, you can!! I don’t know when relationships became so disposable but you don’t have to buy into that. Long-term relationships become long-term when both partners choose to stay together even though it’s hard sometimes. I just got out of a season in my relationship that was hard for TWO YEARS. And now it feels like we’re falling in love again. Seriously, fck the red flags and the toxicity and this “choose yourself, leave them” energy. Successful, long-term relationships are hard sometimes and they’re hard work a lot of the time but some people, some relationships are worth it. If you’re in the first three years of your relationship and you’re struggling, it’s probably a skill gap exacerbated by an unresolved insecure attachment. Both of those are solvable! That’s what I do! I bring my queer and highly-sensitive clients back from the brink of breaking up, help them heal their insecurities and build their relationship skills so by the end of our work together, they’re in love again and have never been happier. If you want to stay together, book a sales call for 1:1 coaching or get on my email list. #queerrelationships #relationshipskills #staytogether
I just feel like this needs to be said because it seems like all you hear on this app is why you should leave your toxic partner, so here’s a different message: You don’t have to! If you’re having a hard time in your relationship but there’s no abuse, aggression, or manipulation and you love them and you both want to make it work, you can!! I don’t know when relationships became so disposable but you don’t have to buy into that. Long-term relationships become long-term when both partners choose to stay together even though it’s hard sometimes. I just got out of a season in my relationship that was hard for TWO YEARS. And now it feels like we’re falling in love again. Seriously, fck the red flags and the toxicity and this “choose yourself, leave them” energy. Successful, long-term relationships are hard sometimes and they’re hard work a lot of the time but some people, some relationships are worth it. If you’re in the first three years of your relationship and you’re struggling, it’s probably a skill gap exacerbated by an unresolved insecure attachment. Both of those are solvable! That’s what I do! I bring my queer and highly-sensitive clients back from the brink of breaking up, help them heal their insecurities and build their relationship skills so by the end of our work together, they’re in love again and have never been happier. If you want to stay together, book a sales call for 1:1 coaching or get on my email list. #queerrelationships #relationshipskills #staytogether
#relationshipcoach #marriageadvice #healthyrelationships #relationshipcoaching #marriage
#relationshipcoach #marriageadvice #healthyrelationships #relationshipcoaching #marriage
You can communicate all day and still feel completely alone in your relationship. That’s why some couples don’t actually have a communication problem. They have a connection problem. They’re talking. They’re explaining. They’re arguing. They’re repeating themselves. But underneath all of it, they’re asking: Do I matter to you? Can I count on you? Are we okay? Sometimes the breakthrough isn’t learning how to say it better. It’s understanding what the other person is really asking for underneath the words. #relationshipadvice #couplestherapy #healthyrelationships #emotionalconnection #communicationskills
You can communicate all day and still feel completely alone in your relationship. That’s why some couples don’t actually have a communication problem. They have a connection problem. They’re talking. They’re explaining. They’re arguing. They’re repeating themselves. But underneath all of it, they’re asking: Do I matter to you? Can I count on you? Are we okay? Sometimes the breakthrough isn’t learning how to say it better. It’s understanding what the other person is really asking for underneath the words. #relationshipadvice #couplestherapy #healthyrelationships #emotionalconnection #communicationskills
You have three choices. 1. Stay exactly as you are. In a loop. Trapped. Unhappy. Disconnected. 2. Repair the marriage. I mean….do the hard work to fix it! I have a program and coaching for this and it CAN work. DM me for the details. 🤍 3. Leave. Get divorced. It’s not an easy path but neither are the ones above 👆. I can help- before you call a lawyer or spill the beans to your mom and friends, book a 1:1 call - your secret is safe with me and I’ll provide you the guidance your looking for. #marriage #marriagerepair #marriageishard #divorce #thisisyoursign
You have three choices. 1. Stay exactly as you are. In a loop. Trapped. Unhappy. Disconnected. 2. Repair the marriage. I mean….do the hard work to fix it! I have a program and coaching for this and it CAN work. DM me for the details. 🤍 3. Leave. Get divorced. It’s not an easy path but neither are the ones above 👆. I can help- before you call a lawyer or spill the beans to your mom and friends, book a 1:1 call - your secret is safe with me and I’ll provide you the guidance your looking for. #marriage #marriagerepair #marriageishard #divorce #thisisyoursign
#coaching #coach #session #love #soulmates
#coaching #coach #session #love #soulmates
Comment “PARTNER” for group coaching info! I used to think my silence during conflict was me being the calm one. I wasn’t yelling. I wasn’t saying something I’d regret. I wasn’t adding fuel to the fire. In my mind, I was de-escalating. But eventually I had to accept something uncomfortable: My silence might have felt safe to me, but it was painful for my partner. While I was telling myself, “I’m just trying not to make this worse,” she was left alone inside a conflict that belonged to both of us. No reassurance. No communication. No repair. Just distance. Learning to be a better partner meant I had to stop judging my behavior only by my intentions and start being willing to look at its impact. Sometimes silence is healthy. Sometimes taking space is necessary. But there’s a big difference between: “I’m overwhelmed and need 30 minutes. I love you, I’m not leaving this unresolved, and I’ll come back so we can talk.” and disappearing emotionally until the discomfort goes away. One is taking space while protecting the connection. The other can become neglect disguised as “keeping the peace.” I didn’t become a better partner by learning how to never get overwhelmed. I became a better partner by learning how to stop making someone else pay the price for my overwhelm. #relationships #relationshipadvice #avoidantmen #menscoach #fixitorfeelit
Comment “PARTNER” for group coaching info! I used to think my silence during conflict was me being the calm one. I wasn’t yelling. I wasn’t saying something I’d regret. I wasn’t adding fuel to the fire. In my mind, I was de-escalating. But eventually I had to accept something uncomfortable: My silence might have felt safe to me, but it was painful for my partner. While I was telling myself, “I’m just trying not to make this worse,” she was left alone inside a conflict that belonged to both of us. No reassurance. No communication. No repair. Just distance. Learning to be a better partner meant I had to stop judging my behavior only by my intentions and start being willing to look at its impact. Sometimes silence is healthy. Sometimes taking space is necessary. But there’s a big difference between: “I’m overwhelmed and need 30 minutes. I love you, I’m not leaving this unresolved, and I’ll come back so we can talk.” and disappearing emotionally until the discomfort goes away. One is taking space while protecting the connection. The other can become neglect disguised as “keeping the peace.” I didn’t become a better partner by learning how to never get overwhelmed. I became a better partner by learning how to stop making someone else pay the price for my overwhelm. #relationships #relationshipadvice #avoidantmen #menscoach #fixitorfeelit
When we’re anxious about a relationship, our thinking gets cloudy. These questions are designed to help you slow down and reconnect with what you actually feel. 1. How do I consistently feel after spending time with them? Think about the overall pattern, not just isolated moments. Do you usually feel more grounded and connected, or do you leave feeling anxious, drained, or confused? 2. Do I feel seen, respected, and valued? Pay attention to whether you feel cared for in ways that actually matter to you, not just in the ways that are convenient for them. 3. Are my needs being met in this relationship? This doesn’t mean every need gets met perfectly all the time, but overall you should feel cared for and supported. If you consistently feel like you have to beg for basic needs, that’s important information. 4. Do our goals and vision for the future actually align? Sometimes the relationship itself can feel good, but when you zoom out, you realize you may not actually want the same kind of life. 5. What do I love and value about them? Try to get specific beyond comfort, history, or the role they play in your life. What about them do you deeply appreciate and enjoy? 6. Am I growing in this relationship, or shrinking myself? Healthy relationships should support your growth and allow you to feel more secure in who you are. If you notice yourself becoming smaller, quieter, more anxious, or less like yourself, that can be meaningful information. 7. Are we able to work through issues together? Pay attention to whether hard conversations actually lead to understanding and change, or if the same issues keep resurfacing without anything really shifting. 8. Do I still feel excited to keep choosing this relationship? Relationships take work, but underneath the hard moments, there should still be some desire to keep investing, growing, and showing up. 9. Do I love who they are right now or the potential of who they could become? It’s easy to stay attached to who someone could be if they changed certain behaviors. But you can’t build your life around the hope that they’ll eventually become who you need them to be, especially if their patterns have shown otherwise.
When we’re anxious about a relationship, our thinking gets cloudy. These questions are designed to help you slow down and reconnect with what you actually feel. 1. How do I consistently feel after spending time with them? Think about the overall pattern, not just isolated moments. Do you usually feel more grounded and connected, or do you leave feeling anxious, drained, or confused? 2. Do I feel seen, respected, and valued? Pay attention to whether you feel cared for in ways that actually matter to you, not just in the ways that are convenient for them. 3. Are my needs being met in this relationship? This doesn’t mean every need gets met perfectly all the time, but overall you should feel cared for and supported. If you consistently feel like you have to beg for basic needs, that’s important information. 4. Do our goals and vision for the future actually align? Sometimes the relationship itself can feel good, but when you zoom out, you realize you may not actually want the same kind of life. 5. What do I love and value about them? Try to get specific beyond comfort, history, or the role they play in your life. What about them do you deeply appreciate and enjoy? 6. Am I growing in this relationship, or shrinking myself? Healthy relationships should support your growth and allow you to feel more secure in who you are. If you notice yourself becoming smaller, quieter, more anxious, or less like yourself, that can be meaningful information. 7. Are we able to work through issues together? Pay attention to whether hard conversations actually lead to understanding and change, or if the same issues keep resurfacing without anything really shifting. 8. Do I still feel excited to keep choosing this relationship? Relationships take work, but underneath the hard moments, there should still be some desire to keep investing, growing, and showing up. 9. Do I love who they are right now or the potential of who they could become? It’s easy to stay attached to who someone could be if they changed certain behaviors. But you can’t build your life around the hope that they’ll eventually become who you need them to be, especially if their patterns have shown otherwise.
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