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𝗛𝗲𝘆 𝗳𝗿𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗱𝘀! 𝗜𝗳 𝘆𝗼𝘂’𝗿𝗲 𝗻𝗲𝘄 𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲, 𝘄𝗲𝗹𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗲🤗

My name is Ojali, but most people call me OJ. I prefer OJ because I don’t like when my name is pronounced incorrectly. 😊

My journey, much like storytelling, is crafted from chapters that have shaped my path and purpose.

I hold a degree in Theatre and Communication Arts, a field that has finely tuned my appreciation for the interplay of art and expression.

My commitment to understanding the nuances of human relationships led me to become a certified relationship counsellor under the tutelage of Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo at Love, Dating, and Marriage (LDM).

As a counselor, I help singles cultivate godly, fulfilling relationships that align with their values and dreams. Having guided and transformed over 300+ singles, I do more than just give advice, I help you design relationships that thrive with purpose, joy, and meaning.
You can have a godly and enjoyable relationship/marriage if you’re willing to put in the work.

Beyond the world of relationships, I am deeply engaged in the evolving realm of Web3. As a cryptocurrency trader, I navigate spaces like the Neo DAO, the metaverse, NG & US STOCKS, and other emerging digital frontiers. I thrive where meaningful human connection meets transformative innovation, blending insight and vision to bring a renewed perspective to all I undertake.

I am married to an incredible man, God-fearing, kind, driven, and a true leader, who’s crazily in love with me 🥰🥰

Yeah! I almost forgot to tell you that I’m big on investment, and I’m also a business owner.

I’m also the author of “𝐖𝐡𝐢𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐬 𝐨𝐟 𝐇𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠”, a book I poured my heart into, exploring trauma, healing, abuse, and restoration. You can find it on Amazon and Selar.

This is my space, feel free to say hello in the comments. I’ll be here to welcome you 🤗 Love youuuu! by @talk.to.oj

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𝐆𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐇𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐀𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐢𝐭 𝐃𝐞𝐬𝐞𝐫𝐯𝐞𝐬!

𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐠𝐫𝐨𝐰𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐮𝐩 𝐰𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝 𝐦𝐞𝐚𝐧 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐚𝐬𝐭 𝐛𝐞𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐝, 𝐛𝐮𝐭 𝐬𝐡𝐞 𝐢𝐬 𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐲𝐨𝐮, 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐪𝐮𝐢𝐞𝐭 𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐭𝐥𝐞 𝐠𝐢𝐫𝐥 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐧𝐞𝐝 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐚𝐬𝐤, 𝐛𝐞𝐜𝐚𝐮𝐬𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐬𝐰𝐞𝐫 𝐰𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝 𝐛𝐞 𝐧𝐨. 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐜𝐚𝐫𝐫𝐲 𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐟𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐬, 𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐥𝐨𝐧𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬, 𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐡𝐮𝐧𝐠𝐞𝐫 𝐭𝐨 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐬𝐡𝐞’𝐬 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐚𝐛𝐥𝐞. 𝐍𝐨 𝐦𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐡𝐨𝐰 𝐦𝐮𝐜𝐡 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐞, 𝐬𝐡𝐞 𝐰𝐚𝐢𝐭𝐬 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐞𝐥𝐥 𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐬𝐡𝐞 𝐢𝐬 𝐞𝐧𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡.

𝐖𝐇𝐈𝐒𝐏𝐄𝐑𝐒 𝐎𝐅 𝐇𝐄𝐀𝐋𝐈𝐍𝐆; isn’t just a book, it’s a companion for anyone ready to heal emotional wounds and rediscover their strength, peace, and joy.

Have you ever wondered if you could get an arm stretched out to reach deep within your soul and pull away ,far from you, the hurts you’ve carried alone for so long but would rather not bear again? This book is my way of giving you that chance. Coming from the same place of hurt as you may be now to a place of freedom , being emotionally whole and thriving in different facets of my life, I felt a huge burden to share with you my story.

I wrote this book so I could get a chance to sit by your side and WHISPER to your ears ,the principles and insights that set me free.
If you are currently carrying burdens of emotional hurt from years ago or yesterday but now yearning to be free from the aches and anguish, this book was made with a huge dose of care for you. Let it be your guide to Healing, Hope and Restoration.

Be among the first to hold this transformative work in your hands.

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https://selar.com/e2s72k75j2

Can’t wait for the physical launch of the hard copy 🙌🏻🙌🏻

#book
#healing
#succour
#salvation
#safe by @talk.to.oj

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💍 ❤️
Meet my friend, who I’m about to start doing life with.
It’s funny how we met, but it’s been a beautiful journey. We have a story to tell . Jesus has done us well.

Come celebrate with us as we say, “I do.”

#ojbayo2025

Pre-wedding (LOOK 3/3) by @talk.to.oj

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a year ago

Many times people ask this question and over time I have realized sadly, that a lot of people get moved by words and forget love is an action, so I thought to make this clear to everyone who needs to learn and know how love works.

Read this Book by Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo as he shares ‘How To Know If He Really Loves You’

#love
#dating
#relationship
#explore
#viral
#read
#books by @talk.to.oj

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2 days ago

You talk every day. You care about each other. And when someone asks, “What are you guys?” The answer is usually: “It’s complicated.” Welcome to the world of situationships.
A situationship is a connection that has: Emotional closeness,Time investment,Shared moments,

But lacks: Clear definition, Mutual commitment, Agreed direction.

Everything is happening, except clarity.

Here’s Why People Avoid Labels Today

1. Labels Feel Like Pressure

For many, labels come with expectations:

Accountability
Consistency
Responsibility
So instead of defining it, they keep things open. Not because they don’t care, but because they don’t want the weight that comes with it.

2. Fear of Losing What Feels Good

Sometimes, people think: “If we define this, it might change things.”

So they avoid the conversation. They stay in the comfort of what exists, even if it’s unclear.

3. Emotional Needs Are Already Being Met

Situationships often provide:

Attention
Companionship
Emotional connection
So there’s no urgency to move forward. Because it already feels like something.

4. Keeping Options Open

Without labels, there’s flexibility. No full commitment. No full attachment (at least on the surface).

It creates a space where people can stay connected without fully choosing.

5. Avoiding Difficult Conversations

Defining a relationship requires clarity. Clarity requires vulnerability. And many people avoid that moment because:

They don’t know what the other person will say
They fear rejection
They don’t want to disrupt what feels easy

So they stay in the “in-between.”

Modupe Ehirim

#love
#dating
#relationship
#explore
#viral by @talk.to.oj

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4 days ago

After years of being an online follower and procrastinating about attending in person, I finally went to the Relationship & Marriages Sit-Out yesterday, @relationshipandmarriages and it was awesome. The questions were answered with so much clarity. I’m already looking forward to the November edition. 😎😎😎😎

Who’s going with me???

#love
#dating
#relationship
#explore by @talk.to.oj

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5 days ago

Many times people ask this question and over time I have realized sadly, that a lot of people get moved by words and forget love is an action, so I thought to make this clear to everyone who needs to learn and know how love works.

Read this Book by Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo as he shares ‘How To Know If She Really Loves You’

#love
#dating
#relationship
#explore
#viral
#read
#books by @talk.to.oj

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8 days ago

Not just disappointment, it will also lead to disaster, all-round disaster.

#love
#dating
#relationships
#explore
#viral by @talk.to.oj

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9 days ago

I was clearing my phone gallery this morning and saw all these amazing pictures that I couldn’t erase. Some tell a story, some are memories, and some are just random pictures I took on a good day. I’ve grown and transformed over the years. God has been so good to me.

#godisgood
#faithfulgod
#love
#transformation
#explore by @talk.to.oj

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9 days ago

Which of these lies have you been told or told someone else before? Share your story in the comments.

In Christian circles today, the issue of ‘God said or God told me...’ has brought a lot of confusion and caused a lot of problems especially for unassuming young ladies. Embedded in this book are timeless truths that will clear out any doubt from your heart as regards who to marry.

#love
#dating
#relationship
#love
#explore
#viral
#foryou by @talk.to.oj

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13 days ago

Rest!

#love
#dating
#relationships
#explore by @talk.to.oj

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13 days ago

Welcome to October! 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

Our entire lives are proof that God is good.

Reflecting on the journey we embarked on a few months ago, as we approach a whole year, it can only be God!

We’ve experienced nothing but the mercy of God!

Thank you, Lord, for your faithfulness! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

#thankyou
#jesus
#gospel
#light
#explore by @talk.to.oj

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