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Be more pilot.

Save this for the days the autopilot voice gets loud. (It will.) Newsletter link in bio.

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If you’re new here, hi! I’m Melanie.

Style director, writer, recovering overthinker, former addict, and eternal student of how to make life feel truly amazing.

The Enoughness was born from years of asking bigger questions than what to buy next, though after years sharing fashion, style and ideas, those things matter too, obviously.

Questions like:

How can we stay true to ourselves in a noisy world?

Why does more never seem to be enough?

Can thinking differently make us happier?

And what do we actually need to live a truly fulfilled life?

Turns out, I’ve found a few things worth knowing, and they’re too good not to share.

Welcome to The Enoughness.

First in the agenda - my newsletter Become The Front Row Editor of Your Life - sign up at theenoughness.com 💋

We’re only just getting started.

📸 @jonnystorey_ ♥️

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No more overthinking and torturing myself making posts. I’m just gonna be myself on here, ADHD quirks and all. This week on my free newsletter Become The Front Row Editor of Your Life, which is about seeing through the noise and owning your sh*t, I’m talking about how to live your good life, and how to turn an average day into the best day of your life.

I take in philosophy, economics and of course fashion, make up and books and the eternal question - how much is enough?

This post is my attempt to take a few hours of torture making a carousel on Canva and see if chatting for two minutes works better.

Worth a try, right?

If you like the sound of it, sign up!

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What are the ingredients of your best day? Your good life? I’ve shared mine here, and it’s the subject of this week’s newsletter too.

Sign up at The Enoughness.com

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Read that again. Because it’s so true!

And here’s the magic bit — when you reach your enough of one thing, it doesn’t leave you with less.

It blows the doors open, giving you space for things you couldn’t even imagine doing when you were busy chasing stuff you didn’t really need after all.

@morganhousel author of The Psychology of Money, has totally worked it out too. The goalpost will keep moving until you decide it doesn’t.

It’s up to you. That’s where you decide what is enough.

Getting the mindset right is the plot twist.

This week’s newsletter goes into all of it. The Enoughness of Money. Link in bio. See you Tuesday.

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Want to become the front row editor of your wallet?

@morganhousel ‘s book The Psychology of Money, and this week’s newsletter, will change how you think and feel about money.

It will transform your idea of enough once and for all, and make you think differently about what you want — and why you want it.

When I read Housel’s chapter on enough, I’d already landed where he has.

But if you need a nudge in the right direction, this Tuesday’s newsletter will take you there, with some stories that might even make you question why you want piles of cash in the first place.

The Enoughness of Money.

Link in bio. Sign up and I’ll see you Tuesday.

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Change doesn’t start with adding stuff.

It starts by editing out what was never you in the first place.

Swipe through. Pick the one that made you flinch a bit.

That’s yours.

Tell me in the comments which one you’re saving as a reminder, I’ve shared mine.

More on the power of change in this week’s newsletter

Become the Front Row Editor of Your Life.

Free. Real. Worth it

For more of this every Tuesday…. Link ⬆️♥️ taken in London, United Kingdom by @theenoughness

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Looking for a morning routine that is not deranged?

You need the enoughness morning routine! £5. I can’t promise you’ll become superhuman, but you will have a really good day. Find it in the newsletter, at theenoughness.com now, it’ll arrive tomorrow.

What’s the maddest wellness thing you’ve ever bought? Mine’s in the comments. taken in London, United Kingdom by @theenoughness

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Read on for why - which one resonates most with you?

1️⃣ The cult of more is making us and the planet sick.

The modern world is engineered to keep us at the extremes of too much, not enough, lack and wanting. That’s not a personal failing. That’s by design. Once you see it, you can’t unsee it.

2️⃣ Choosing well is the new having a lot.

Anyone can accumulate. The skill is knowing what to keep, what no longer serves you, and what should never have darkened your door in the first place. Marie Kondo proved it with stuff; Rick Rubin says it about creative work, Recovery programmes teach it about addiction. The same principle works on a wardrobe, a calendar, your home, friends, mental and physical wellbeing and - of course!- pointless stuff.

3️⃣ True wealth isn’t what you earn. It’s what you don’t spend.

Morgan Housel writes about this in The Psychology of Money, and it’s one of the most perception shifting ideas you’ll hear. Discernment and restriction is the muscle that turns money into freedom instead of more stuff.

4️⃣ Your attention is who you are.

We track our steps, our sleep, our calories. But not our attention, which is the one thing we can hold and direct when everything else is out of our hands.

5️⃣ The era of overconsumption is ending.

Whether you feel it or not, culture is turning. People are tired of being sold to. Tired of the haul, the productivity hack, the demands on our time and attention. We want ourselves back.

The new luxury isn’t a thing. It’s the powerful knowing what’s enough for us in the best possible way. It’s setting goalposts for what is best for you and sticking to it. Whether that’s reading a book, working on your project, building your relationships, honing your skills, valuing your time and editing your life on purpose, for you, every damn day.

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3 months ago

This week’s newsletter is about how to stay sane with ADHD.

Not the productivity hacks version. The human version.

If you think you have it, know you have it, or love someone with it, you’ll know not feeling good enough is the singular curse of this condition.

Take five minutes of your day to read this one, because if it can help one person feel better, then that’s a win.

Sign up at theenoughness.com

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Editing, editing editing! That’s all we think about over here.

Like, I only use four things to care for my skin.

Because that’s the enoughness of skincare - right there.

For more on editing for enoughness read this week’s newsletter.

Do you reckon four is enough?

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There years ago I hardcore edited my wardrobe from two stuffed closets to one edited one.

You’d think less clothes means fewer options. But the opposite is true! And that’s what no one tells you. If you wear what you love, you become more stylish, not less.

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