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Shine maker. Always choose Joy.
๐—œ๐—šโ€™๐˜€: @rtfotousa @pshinehi
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PRAYING FOR YOU.
(Join me in manifesting my prayer.  Feel free to repost, tag anyone needing prayers ๐Ÿ™โค๏ธ)

๐“๐ก๐ž๐ซ๐ž ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ฌ๐จ ๐ฆ๐š๐ง๐ฒ ๐Ÿ๐ซ๐ข๐ž๐ง๐๐ฌ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐Ÿ๐š๐ฆ๐ข๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐ฆ๐ž๐ฆ๐›๐ž๐ซ๐ฌ ๐ข๐ง ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐ฅ๐ข๐Ÿ๐ž-๐ก๐ž๐ซ๐ž ๐š๐ง๐ ๐š๐›๐ซ๐จ๐š๐-๐ฐ๐ก๐จ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐›๐š๐ญ๐ญ๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ข๐ซ ๐ฅ๐ข๐ฏ๐ž๐ฌ ๐ซ๐ข๐ ๐ก๐ญ ๐ง๐จ๐ฐ.

It touches me more deeply than I can express, especially as this season has been one of the most challenging I have ever witnessed.

Everything that enters this life must one day leave it. But I have always believedโ€ฆ

๐“๐ก๐ž๐ซ๐ž ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ง๐จ ๐ž๐ง๐๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฌ-๐จ๐ง๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐ง๐ž๐ฐ ๐›๐ž๐ ๐ข๐ง๐ง๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฌ.

Until that new beginning comes, we hold tightly to faith, love, hope and the possibility of a miracle.

๐“๐จ๐๐š๐ฒ, ๐ˆ ๐ฉ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐š๐ฒโ€ฆ

I pray for a ๐Œ๐ˆ๐‘๐€๐‚๐‹๐„ today-
for you, your loved ones,
everyone facing cancer,
and anyone battling for their life right now.

May healing flow through every cell,
strength rise within every heart,
and hope become greater than fear.

๐Œ๐š๐ฒ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ข๐ฆ๐ฉ๐จ๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ข๐›๐ฅ๐ž ๐›๐ž๐œ๐จ๐ฆ๐ž ๐ฉ๐จ๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ข๐›๐ฅ๐ž.

๐€๐ฆ๐ž๐ง. ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฝโค๏ธ
Big hug, 
Russell Tanoue
#PrayForAMiracle #faith #life #miracle #fyp by @therealmr.joy
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After 25+ years apart, we finally got to see each other again. Our hearts are still the same, the laughter is even strongerโ€ฆ but our vision? Wellโ€ฆ thatโ€™s a little different now. ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ‘“โค๏ธ

Some friendships donโ€™t pick up where they left offโ€”they never really left.

Thanks @zenmommyof3 for the birthday treats!

#fyp #foryou #reunion #friends #life by @therealmr.joy
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๐Ÿš— GIVING CREDIT WHERE CREDIT IS DUE! ๐ŸŒŸ

I love giving a shout-out to 5 stars local businesses that deserve to be recognized!

When you come across people who take pride in what they do, show up with professionalism, and genuinely care about their customers, itโ€™s worth sharing!

Today, Iโ€™m shining a spotlight on ALIโ€™I TOWING & RECOVERY! ๐Ÿš˜

Supporting local businesses is about more than business. Itโ€™s about recognizing the hard work, dedication, and people who make a difference in our community.

NEED TOWING OR RECOVERY SERVICES?
๐Ÿš˜ ALIโ€™I TOWING & RECOVERY
๐Ÿ‘ค Owner: Anwar Alwer
๐Ÿ“ž (808) 795-3521
๐Ÿ“ง Alii.towingrecovery@gmail.com
๐Ÿ“ 430 Sumner St., Honolulu, HI 96817

Letโ€™s support our local businesses and the people behind them!

Remember, a little appreciation goes a long way.

๐Ÿ’› ALWAYS CHOOSE JOY!

#AliiTowing #SupportLocalHawaii #Honolulu #HawaiiSmallBusiness #fyp by @therealmr.joy
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Hey guys let me know please!!!

Since my hairstyle changed, so has my wardrobe. Polos are becoming a thing with me. What do you think of this style for me?

#fyp #asianmen #mensfashionblogger #styles #menswear taken in Honolulu, Hawaii by @therealmr.joy
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Somebody, like YOU, needs to hear this tonight. โค๏ธ Sending you a little JOY and a big hug.

#igers #rtchoosejoy #fyp #foryou #russelltanoue by @therealmr.joy
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My mission is to always remind you - no matter what is happening in and around you, there is an option to choose.  And that is JOY! 

Surround your life with people who keep your joy FULL!  And let it overflow onto others.

CHOOSING JOY WITH:
The ladies at Little Joes
Shared some joy with my friend and with these sweet retired ladies whose energy was full on twenties!
She asked โ€œwhen can we all meet again??โ€

The thing about my mission is no matter what and who JOY is the key within that sometimes needs to be unlocked.  Glad to be apart of it!

Location:  Hawaii
Little Joeโ€™s Steakhouse
September 18, 2026

#rtchoosejoy #littlejoessteakhouse #fyp #joy #alwayschoosejoy 

For more joy visit @pshinehi by @therealmr.joy
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My mission is to always remind you - no matter what is happening in and around you, there is an option to choose.  And that is JOY! 

Surround your life with people who keep your joy FULL!  And let it overflow onto others.

CHOOSING JOY WITH:
Preston Blair
Always a blessing sharing JOY with this guy.  Proud of the teen he has and is evolving into and Iโ€™m looking forward to the chapters ahead.

Location:  New York
361 W. 46th St., New York, NY 
May 4, 2026

For more joy visit @pshinehi 

#rtchoosejoy #teamprestonblair#newyork #nyrestaurants #fyp taken in New York City by @therealmr.joy
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3 days ago
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โ€œI WANT YOUR SHIRT!โ€ ๐Ÿ˜‚โœจ

At the after-party in New York, I was still receiving so many wonderful compliments on my wardrobe.

As I walked past a table, a beautiful woman suddenly exclaimed, โ€œOh my God, I just LOVE your shirt!โ€

I stopped, smiled, and thanked her.

But she wasnโ€™t finished.

โ€œNo, seriously! I WANT IT! Give it to me!โ€ ๐Ÿ˜‚

I burst out laughing and replied, โ€œOh, I donโ€™t think we want to scare the other guests by having me walk around SHIRTLESS!โ€ ๐Ÿคฃ

We both laughed.

Then I said, โ€œBut I DO have something for you.โ€

I reached into my little pouch filled with my Always Choose JOY wristbands and invited her to pick one.

As she pulled one out and read the message, her excitement softened into the sweetest, most heartfeltโ€ฆ

โ€œAwwwwww!โ€ โค๏ธ

She immediately stood up, wrapped her arms around me, and said,

โ€œThis is so beautiful. YOU are beautiful.โ€

And just like that, what began as a compliment about a shirt became something so much more meaningful.

You see, one of the greatest gifts I receive from my mission to spread JOY isnโ€™t simply making someone smile.

Itโ€™s those unexpected moments when a stranger feels seen, appreciated, and connected.

She wanted my shirt.

I gave her a little piece of JOY.

And in return, she gave me a beautiful memory. โค๏ธ

Sometimes the smallest gestures leave the biggest impressions on our hearts.

Rememberโ€ฆ ALWAYS CHOOSE JOY! โœจโค๏ธ

For more joy visit @pshinehi 

#AlwaysChooseJoy #rtchoosejoy #fyp #fyp by @therealmr.joy
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3 days ago
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30+ YEARS. THOUSANDS OF FACES. ONE PASSION.

After more than three decades behind the camera, you might think Iโ€™ve seen it all.

But hereโ€™s the beautiful truthโ€ฆ

Every face is still a first for me. โค๏ธ

Every person who steps in front of my lens brings a different story, a different energy, and a beauty that belongs to them alone.

Iโ€™ve never believed photography was simply about capturing what someone looks like.

Itโ€™s about discovering what makes them shine.

Sometimes itโ€™s confidence they didnโ€™t know they had. Sometimes itโ€™s a smile theyโ€™ve forgotten how to share. And sometimes, itโ€™s seeing themselves in a way they never imagined possible.

Thatโ€™s the magic I still feel after all these years.

The cameras have changed. The industry has evolved. But the joy I experience when someone sees their own beauty?

That feeling never gets old.

Because to me, youโ€™re never just another face.

Youโ€™re a new story. A new beginning. A beautiful possibility ready to bloom. โœจ

True beauty is unseen. โค๏ธ

Russell Tanoue
๐Ÿ“ธ www.rtfoto.com
๐Ÿ“ฉ booking@rtfoto.com
#fyp #russelltanoue #hawaiiphotographer #portrait #foryoupage by @therealmr.joy
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4 days ago
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BEHIND THE RUBBER. โค๏ธ

Sometimes, the smallest gesture carries the greatest meaning.

Sitting in the Delta Sky Club, surrounded by strangers heading to different destinations, I noticed a gentleman beside me quietly staring into space.

I handed him a simple rubber wristband.

ALWAYS CHOOSE JOY.

He studied the words, looked at me, and smiled.

โ€œWhere are you heading?โ€ I asked.

โ€œActually, Iโ€™m returning.โ€

โ€œOh, from where?โ€

โ€œFrom burying my father.โ€

My heart sank. I offered my condolences.

He looked at the wristband again and said something Iโ€™ll never forget.

โ€œI like this. It reminds me of all the joyful times I shared with my dad.โ€

I smiled through watery eyes. In that moment, I felt there was a reason our paths had crossed.

Two strangers. Two different journeys. One unexpected connection.

He was carrying the weight of goodbye, yet a simple reminder of JOY brought him back to the beautiful memories of his father.

THIS IS WHAT LIVES BEHIND THE RUBBER.

Over the years, these little JOY wristbands have opened doors to stories of heartbreak, illness, loss, survival, love, and hope.

Some bring laughter. Others bring tears.

But each reminds me of something profound.

You never know what someone is carrying until you take a moment to SEE them.

Sometimes, we canโ€™t fix someoneโ€™s pain or find the perfect words. But a small gesture can remind someone they matter, that kindness still exists, and that even through sorrow, JOY can survive.

THIS IS MY WHY.

Itโ€™s never been about the rubber.

Itโ€™s about the human connection behind it.

Life is fragile. Time is borrowed. Nothing lasts forever.

But love, kindness, and joyful memories can live in our hearts long after a moment has passed.

That gentleman may never know how deeply he touched my heart.

But I hope whenever he sees that little wristband, he remembers not just the sadness of losing his fatherโ€ฆ

But the JOY of having him. โค๏ธ

We canโ€™t always change what someone is going through. But we can change how they feel in a moment.

ALWAYS CHOOSE JOY.

Russell Tanoue
@therealmr.joy
#rtchoosejoy #russelltanoue #fyp #joy #inspiration by @therealmr.joy
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5 days ago
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If I could bring you back.

10/08

๐Ÿ’” This day changed my life forever, Mom.

Two years later, it still feels like yesterday.

Your memory lives in my every day -
in the quiet moments,
in the things I still want to tell you,
and in the love that never left with you.

I miss you in ways words will never fully explain.

I carry you with me, Mom.
Always.

#InLovingMemory #MissYouMom #ForeverInMyHeart #fyp #foryou taken in Honolulu, Hawaii by @therealmr.joy
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6 days ago
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My mission is to always remind you - no matter what is happening in and around you, there is an option to choose.  And that is JOY! 

Surround your life with people who keep your joy FULL!  And let it overflow onto others.

CHOOSING JOY WITH:
Stefano
A good meal starts with an amazing waiter.  Like Stefano who exudes joy in everything he does.
Location:  Lattanzi Restaurant Cucina Italiana.
361 W. 46th St., New York, NY 
September 29, 2026

#rtchoosejoy#russelltanoue #lattanzinyc #newyork #nyrestaurants by @therealmr.joy
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