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Thrifting gave me language when I didn’t have the words. I could find an overlooked piece, see what was still beautiful about it, and imagine what it could become. Somewhere in that process, I began finding expression again, too.

That same care is at the heart of how I serve women.
We spend so much time being who everyone needs that parts of us can get tucked away.

Through @thisisourroom.co , we gather for conversations that give us time beyond our titles and responsibilities, to see ourselves again.

Through @themourningmoms , a bouquet reminds a mother that she and her child are remembered.
What became a safe place for me has shaped what I hope to offer another woman: care, connection, and a reminder that there is still beauty here.

That’s what Styled to Serve means to me, and I’m honored to join @oilandhoneycollective for Covered & Becoming.

Girl, meet me there.
📍Lakeland, Florida

Tickets: https://www.atasteofhealing.co/ taken in Lakeland, Florida by @thisisourroom.co
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Here’s what the girls are wearing to Bag Check. For inspirational purposes only.

The bag is really the outfit 👜 taken in Ridgeland, Mississippi by @thisisourroom.co
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I’ll have three lip glosses, an old receipt, and a backup plan for God all in the same bag 😩

I haven’t shown my face over here since we launched BAG CHECK, but baby we are FIVE DAYS away and this conversation has been following me around like a cart on wheels.

Especially the part about releasing control. I can say “Lord, have Your way” and still have a few suggestions on how He should proceed.

We’re getting into all of that Saturday. A little laughter, some honest conversation, and a question I keep coming back to:

What could I have room for if I stopped carrying so much? 🤨

BAG CHECK
October 10 • 1–4 PM
📍Ridgeland, Ms
www.thisisourroom.com

We have 1 ticket left. Do you want it? taken in Ridgeland, Mississippi by @thisisourroom.co
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10 days ago
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There was something about the meaning behind Parfums Du Ciel “Perfumes of Heaven” that immediately slapped me in the face.

As a mother who loves from the sky, I immediately felt led and connected.

Because when you love someone who is no longer physically here, you learn just how much memory can live in the smallest things. A song. A date. A place. And yes, even a scent.

Scent has a beautiful way of holding memory. One familiar fragrance can take you back to a person, a place, or a moment you never want to forget. And for mothers of loss, those moments are some of the most precious things we carry. 

So for this partnership to come together in October, during #pregnancyandinfantlossawarenessmonth feels incredibly fitting.

With so much gratitude, I’m honored to announce Parfums Du Ciel @parfumsduciel as BAG CHECK’s official Beauty + Scent Partner.

On 10.10, we have the opportunity to be connected, recognized, and supported by a brand that seeks the Father and walks in His direction. That alone makes this partnership incredibly special.

BAG CHECK is about what we carry. The things you can see, the things you can’t, the things worth holding onto, and the things that may have overstayed their welcome.

We’re creating an afternoon of fashion, conversation, connection, and remembrance all while also making room for a little fun.

And yes, your bag is part of the assignment. 👜

Bring your best bag, clutch, purse, tote or whatever feels like you into the room.

Women coming together, carrying!

We are officially THREE TICKETS AWAY FROM SOLD OUT. Grab yours and be a part of the BAG CHECK experience 🖤

October 10, 2026
www.thisourroom.com taken in Ridgeland, Mississippi by @thisisourroom.co
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October, I’m ready for you 🤎

October is a FULL month for me.

My emotions usually live everywhere at once. I mean joy, remembrance, gratitude, longing, and excitement. All of it!

It’s my son’s birthday month + #PAIL month and this year our annual gathering falls on his actual birthday.

That alone makes this year feel different.

To gather women, create something beautiful, and pour into others on a day that has always carried so much meaning for me feels full circle in a way I can’t quite explain.

I’m emotional.
I’m excited.
I’m grateful.

And somehow, I know this one is going to be special.

My heart lives for #October.

💼 Bag Check is highly influenced by you baby boy.

Tylan Neil 🕊️

We’re backkkkkkk! It’s almost time for our annual event. This year we’re calling it “Bag Check”.

This October is our 2nd annual event and the question is “WHAT DO YOU CARRY”?

“BAG CHECK” is an intimate women’s experience about what we carry.

And yes, we mean the actual bag too!

Bring a #purse or #handbag that says something about you.

Big. Small. Vintage. Designer. Thrifted. Dramatic.

If you love it, bring it.

Because your bag is part of the experience.
In honor of Pregnancy & Infant Loss Awareness Month, we’ll also make room to recognize mothers who know what it means to carry love differently.

But EVERY WOMAN is invited in the room.

So get dressed.
Grab your bag.
And meet us in the room.

Tickets are available at www.thisisourroom.com and the link is also available in bio.

TIOR + The Mourning Moms
This Is Our Room - a mourning mom experience taken in Ridgeland, Mississippi by @thisisourroom.co
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Come here 🫴
I’m back. It’s mine. I want it! by @thisisourroom.co
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Never knew I was just like the old blazer hanging in the men’s back section at the @Goodwill 😲

Thrifted item tells a redemption story and I relate well!

My son’s life didn’t end his impact, it literally changed how I see everything.

As the days, months, and years go by-that impact evolves.

And today, I don’t have the perfect words to explain that. However, I’m living in a way that reflects the love I still carry because

…I’m forever his mama 🤎

In loving memory of my son, Tylan Neil 3/25🕊️
#saytheirnameday by @thisisourroom.co
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Late-night gratitude because adulthood is wild… but I’m still locked in 🔒 by @thisisourroom.co
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The extension of my thankfulness reaches all the way to heaven 👼🏾🕊️🤎

#happythanksgivng by @thisisourroom.co
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Love don’t expire and the mommy in me had to jump on this trend #whoopty 🤣

#whooptydoo #blackmama #childloss #pregnancyandinfantloss #infantloss #pregnancyandinfantlossawareness #pregnancyloss #stillbirth #preemieloss #grief #loss #ihadamiscarriage #angelmom #babyloss #miscarriage #prayingwomen #discoveryunder10k #blackchildloss #bereavedparent #discoveryunder5k by @thisisourroom.co
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I’ll honor you today and forever 🤎

#waveoflight #pregnancyandinfantlossawareness #pregnancyandinfantlossawarenessmonth by @thisisourroom.co
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Let’s illuminate the night with candles in honor of precious little ones gone too soon. Each flicker represents a memory, a story, and a love that will never fade 🕯️

Together, we can show our support and compassion for mothers enduring this loss.

I am my sister’s keeper 🤎

Light it up at 7 PM local time ⏰

#waveoflight #pregnancyandinfantlossawareness #pregnancyandinfantlossawarenessmonth #childloss by @thisisourroom.co
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