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Violet Lange ♥️ Dating + Intimacy Coach 🔥survivors of SA / CPTSD

@violetlovelange

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💘Done waiting for love to “just happen”?
⛓️‍💥Break the patterns keeping you single
✨Meet your soulmate differently
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Love Harmonics isn’t about becoming more lovable.

It’s about becoming the match for the extraordinary love you’re already longing for.

We begin TOMORROW at 5pm Mountain.

$69 · lifetime access ✨

Link in bio.

Come make some magic with us. ❤️

#love #dating #harmony #soulmate #divineunion by @violetlovelange

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Meet the love of your life by shifting from “where” to HOW you are showing up.

Join us in Love Harmonics to become the match for the love of your life ♥️

We start Thursday, and I’d love to ship the 80 page guidebook to you 🎁

Link in bio

#love #wedding #dating #soulmate #divineunion by @violetlovelange

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Depleted Dater? Or Love Creator?

Meet your forever person, without the apps, just like my clients do.

But you have to make this shift.

How? Join us in Love Harmonics

Become the Match for Extraordinary Love 🔥

Because your happily ever after starts with you

violetlange.com/loveharmomics

#love #dating #relationships #soulmate #onlinedating by @violetlovelange

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Happy 9th Anniversary to my smart, radiant, and wonderful wife, @violetlovelange !

Hard to believe I’ve known you over a decade, and been married to you for nine years!

Feel more and more gratitude for the relationship and family we’ve cultivate everyday and the many ways we’ve return to connection with each other through our ups and downs! by @violetlovelange

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8 days ago

Chaos in your relationships? TRUST THIS.

How are you going to create the love of your life and soulmate relationships if you’re hanging out in connections that are not

Reciprocal
Resonant
Repair friendly

Let this be your UPLEVEL for your relational field.

Learn more at link in bio and how 3 energy shifts can help you find your soulmates

💗🏹🔥

#venusretrograde #chaos #soulmate #friendship #love by @violetlovelange

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13 days ago

For the millions of survivors of SA…. Living in a world of Cornell 7, Epstein files, child p0rn and more…

And yet the path after disclosure isn’t easy

Having enjoyable, safe intimacy isn’t easy

Creating healthy love and sweet surrender and a foundation of trust isn’t easy

It’s not your fault any of it happened.

And yet I don’t want to see anyone, let alone survivors, go without love, trust, intimacy, healing, closeness, reclamation.

Wherever you are on the path, I see you 💜🥹💫

And I want holy love, soul mate love, divine Union for you. Especially you.

#survivor #cornell7 #trust #intimacy #healing by @violetlovelange

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15 days ago

Finding love starts with becoming more aligned with yourself — not searching harder for “the one.”
Chemistry is not enough. Date for how you want to feel, plus shared values and emotional availability. Slow down. Tell the truth. Take the next inspired action.
From Done With Dating Episode 29 with Violet Lange.
Listen: https://open.spotify.com/episode/13jweraREMbdJCQtha0fCI
donewithdating.co
#datingadvice #datingtips #relationshipadvice #onlinedating #selfawareness by @violetlovelange

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You “say” finding love is the most important thing in your life…

But you neglect it. Overwork. Hide behind spiritual practices. Endlessly process in therapy.

Then don’t know how to flirt, get a date, navigate intimacy, and build a healthy sexy relationship.

The love of your life won’t just appear unless you are engaged in your love life, changing your patterns, building your skills and capacity, and knowing what to actually do to create lasting love.

This is what I’m passionate about.

Check out my Single to Soulmate replay — link in bio

And yes. This is for all you avoidants out there 🙊

#love #dating #avoidantattachment #neglect #relationships by @violetlovelange

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Love or logistics? Money or intimacy? Balance or ego obsession?

I’m blessed to only have had truly two impossible tradeoffs. Maturing to see how I live (or not), my values.

I moved the webinar out one hour but I changed my relationship with my daughter

#love #motherhood #relationships #choices #entrepreneur by @violetlovelange

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23 days ago

Hate it when brilliant creative lovers get stuck on the dating hamster wheel.

Almost worst than having no romance at all…

When you make a connection and then the other shoe drops

When you see the magic of a moment and it falls flat

When situationships seem to be all that you create, date after date after date

If you’re sick of getting stuck in flirting or dating that goes no where,

When you crave lasting love and soul-shaking intimacy,

There’s a sneaky archetype that’s running the show.

I see this ALL the time. And it’s not hard to shift, you just have to know what you’re looking for.

Which is why I’m revealing the 3 Archetypes to Move from Single to Soulmate in 2027

A new live webinar for lasting love 💗

Details and link in bio

#dating #datingapps #archetypes #love #soulmate by @violetlovelange

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25 days ago

Mmm feeling held beyond the human is just as valid and important of a way to feel loved.

This week we’ll be communing with passion vine during our Water Ceremony

What in the natural world holds you?

#love #divineunion #relationships #motherearth #aspen by @violetlovelange

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