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The public health crisis hiding in plain sight.

Reality 7: Isolation and Loneliness

More than #11million children in the U.S. have experienced the criminal charging or incarceration of a parent or caregiver.

For many children impacted by parental incarceration, isolation is not temporary. It can be shaped by separation, stigma, silence, disrupted caregiving, financial hardship, and the barriers families face when trying to stay connected.

Over time, isolation and loneliness can affect mental health, physical health, learning, relationships, and long-term well-being.

But connection is one of the strongest protective factors we have.

A trusted adult.
A safe relationship.
A supportive community.
A system that recognizes what children are carrying and responds with care.

Through our 7 Unspoken Realities series, WE GOT US NOW has lifted up the often invisible experiences of children impacted by parental incarceration and the urgent need to build pathways of connection, healing, and support.

❤️ Thank you for engaging with us over the last 7 weeks.

📌 If you know a young person, caregiver, educator, provider, or community member who could benefit from this information, please share this series with them.

Swipe through to explore simple ways to strengthen connection and support young people in your community.

#WEGOTUSNOW #7UnspokenRealities #ChildWellbeing #PublicHealth #ParentalIncarceration #CYAIPI by @we_gotusnow
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Welcome to Season 6 of the WE GOT US NOW Podcast.

❤️ Mental Health Awareness Series:
7 Unspoken Realities

Clip 7 of 7: Isolation & Loneliness

Isolation & Loneliness are not just feelings. 

In this final podcast clip, WE GOT US NOW Podcast Host, Ebony Underwood, and Guest, Children Hospital Colorado Inaugural Mental Health-In-Chief Dr. Ron-Li Liaw explore the lasting impact of toxic stress from isolation and loneliness on children impacted by parental incarceration. 

For children impacted by parental incarceration, isolation can be physical, emotional, and social. It can become a lifelong reality if we do not recognize it early and respond with care. Separation, stigma, silence, and lack of connection can create chronic stress that affects a child’s emotional and physical well-being over time.

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#WeGotUsNowPodcast #Isolation #Loneliness #ChildWellbeing #ToxicStress #CYAIPI #MentalHealthAwareness #WEGOTUSNOW by @we_gotusnow
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Isolation has become a public health crisis.

Clip 7 of 7: Isolation & Loneliness

For many children impacted by parental incarceration, isolation isn’t new, it’s been a quiet, constant reality.

Missed visits. Unanswered calls. 
The weight of responsibilities no child should carry. 
The silence that follows separation.

Through our 7 Unspoken Realities series, we close by exploring how isolation and loneliness affect a child’s emotional health, relationships, and ability to heal.

📌 As we wrap this series, we’d love to hear from you:
📌 Which of these realities resonated with you the most?

#7UnspokenRealities #WEGOTUSNOW #IsolationAndLoneliness #ParentalIncarceration #CYAIPI by @we_gotusnow
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🔴 ACTIONIST VOICE

Hector Jr says: 

“The cost of connection is one that you don’t realize you need to pay until later on in life. My relationship with my father suffered until we were able to pay to put the phone on when I was around 13. From that point on I remember waiting every single day for my phone to ring so I can have those 30 minutes with my dad. I learned how to be a man through those collect calls and I can only imagine how different I’d be today had they not been a thing."

A child’s bond with their father should not be treated as a privilege, a reward, or an afterthought. It should be protected as part of their emotional health, stability, and long-term well-being.

#ActionistInAction #HectorJr #7UnspokenRealities #WEGOTUSNOW by @we_gotusnow
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Love should never come with a price tag. 🏷

Reality 6: Cost of Connection

74% of jails have banned in-person visits.

The connection between children and their incarcerated parents is continuously monetized through exploitative call and video fees.

This financial obstacle deepens isolation and makes healing harder for children who already carry the heavy weight of separation.

#7UnspokenRealities #CostofConnection #WEGOTUSNOW by @we_gotusnow
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Welcome to Season 6 of the WE GOT US NOW Podcast.

❤️ Mental Health Awareness Series:
7 Unspoken Realities

Clip 6 of 7: Cost of Connection

n this podcast film clip, Dr. Ron-Li Liaw and Ebony Underwood discuss the cost of connection for children. For many children, staying connected to an incarcerated parent depends on what their family can afford.

A phone call.
A video visit.
Transportation to a facility.

These costs are not just financial. They can deepen isolation, strain attachment, and make separation even harder for children who are already carrying so much. Connection should never depend on what a family can afford. Connection is part of a child’s emotional well-being.

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@chicagobeyond @nbafoundation #rwjf #sonymusic

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#CostOfConnection #FamilyConnection #CYAIP #WEGOTUSNOW by @we_gotusnow
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Love should never come with a price tag. 🏷

Clip 6 of 7: Cost of Connection.

The connection between children and their incarcerated parents is continuously monetized through exploitative phone/video/text fees, the elimination of in-person visits. This financial barrier turns a simple “I love you” into a transaction. It deepens isolation, fractures relationships, and makes healing harder for children who already carry the heavy weight of separation.

Tell us if you can relate in the comments below.

#7UnspokenRealities #WEGOTUSNOW #CostOfConnection #FamilyConnection 
#CYAIPI by @we_gotusnow
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🔴 ACTIONIST VOICE: 

Shalei

“My adoptive parents, opened up a world I wouldn’t have had otherwise. Their love and support helped me see my story of parental incarceration not as something that made me different in a bad way, but as a defining part of who I am.”

One caring adult can help change how a young person understands their story.

#ActionistInAction #Shalei #7UnspokenRealities #WEGOTUSNOW by @we_gotusnow
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ONE. That’s all it takes.

Reality 5: Caring, Trusted Adults

One consistent, caring adult can dramatically improve the life outcomes of a child impacted by parental incarceration.

❤️ You don’t have to be a parent. You just have to show up.

#7UnspokenRealities #CaringAdults #ChildWellbeing #WEGOTUSNOW by @we_gotusnow
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Welcome to Season 6 of the WE GOT US NOW Podcast.

❤️ Mental Health Awareness Series:
7 Unspoken Realities

Clip 5 of 7: Caring Adults & Support

In this week's podcast episode, Ebony and Dr. Ron-li make clear the role of ...

A coach. A teacher. A mentor. A neighbor. A family friend. A community member. 

❤️ A Caring, Trusted Adult.

Someone who listens without judgment.

Someone who recognizes what they may be carrying.

Someone who can see where they want to go and help them believe it is possible.

One Caring, Trusted Adult can make a lasting difference for young people impacted by parental incarceration.

Full Episode → Link in bio.

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@chicagobeyond @nbafoundation #rwjf #sonymusic

#WeGotUsNowPodcast #CaringAdults #Mentorship #CYAIPI #MentalHealthAwareness #HealingCentered #WEGOTUSNOW by @we_gotusnow
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❤️ One person who shows up can change everything.

Clip 5 of 7: Caring Adults & Support

Research shows that having at least one stable, committed relationship with a caring, supportive adult is one of the strongest predictors of resilience in children impacted by parental incarceration.

Just one caring adult can make all the difference. Someone who shows up consistently and helps a child feel seen, safe, and supported.

Tell us if you can relate in the comments below.

#7UnspokenRealities #WEGOTUSNOW #CaringAdults #Mentorship #CYAIPI by @we_gotusnow
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🔴 ACTIONIST VOICE:

Paradyse says:
It's crucial to cultivate an inner sanctuary with intuition, remembrance and innovation to thrive in this world. 

If we look inward we will find everything that we are searching for to support us.

#HealingCentered #WellnessTools #ActionistInAction #Paradyse #7UnspokenRealities #WEGOTUSNOW by @we_gotusnow
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