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Hi, I’m Destiny B. Sadler proud owner of YSTBYOU 

My mission is simple: to help women feel their absolute best by empowering them to live with freedom, confidence, and joy.

I’m all about skincare, makeup, motherhood, womanhood—you name it, I’ve got you covered. 🌸

šŸ’Œ If you’re ready to feel amazing in your own skin (or curious about how I can help), click the link in my bio or send me a quick message. 

I can’t wait to connect with you!

#IntroReel #EmpoweredWomen #FreedomConfidenceJoy #MakeupAndMotherhood #ystbyou by @ystbyou
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a year ago
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So y’all really loved my 40+ dance moves, huh?
Had to run it back—with a little remix.
Because when you find your groove, you don’t stop… you evolve.

To my new followers: welcome to the vibe ! I’m a beauty guide helping busy moms feel confident and radiant—one dance, one reel, and one skincare routine at a time.

Say hi in the comments + tell me if you want the skincare glow behind this confidence.
Let’s glow up together, inside and out!

#DancingOver40 #40AndThriving #GrownAndGrooving #MomLifeMoves #RealReelVibes #BusyMomEnergy #ConfidenceIsAgeless #BeautyAndBalance #LevelUpWithLimeLife #GlowAndGroove #LimeLifeWithMe #SkincareAndSalsa #40AndFlawless #RealMomGlow #DancingInMySkin #BusyMomBeauty #AgelessEnergy #ConfidenceIsTheVibe by @ystbyou
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a year ago
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This is what dancing like a 40-year-old looks like—unapologetic, confident, and full of joy!
No, we’re not trying to keep up—we’re setting the vibe.

Because grown women like us? We handle business, raise babies, and still make time to move our bodies and feel GOOD doing it.

To every mama, career queen, and multitasking woman out here: this is your reminder to dance anyway.
Life’s too short to sit still.

If this made you smile or inspired you, drop a comment, tag a friend, and hit that follow. Let’s keep showing up real, radiant, and unstoppable—together.

#DanceLikeYouMeanIt #Over40AndThriving #MomsWhoMove #RealMomReels #ConfidentAt40 #BeautyInMotion #BusyAndBlessed #MoveWithJoy #LimeLifeWithMe #GrownWomanGlow by @ystbyou
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2 years ago
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At this point, I’m just trying to figure out how I got here……

I have children to raise, a career to manage, a life to live… and somehow I’ve added SQUIRREL CONTROL to my résumé 🤣🤣🤣

And the audacity of this squirrel to act like I’M bothering HIM….. we have had several encounters leading up to this! 

Please tell me somebody else has experienced this level of foolishness! šŸ˜‚

#ThingsIDidNotSignUpFor #SquirrelDrama #SendHelp by @ystbyou
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20 hours ago
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The list of things I did NOT sign up for just keeps getting longer! šŸ˜©šŸ˜‚

Because WHY am I outside trying to convince a squirrel that my roof is NOT available for new tenants?!

I promise you, this was NOT on my 2026 bingo card! šŸæļøšŸ˜­

Y’all ever had to deal with something this ridiculous?! Because I need HELP!

#ThingsIDidNotSignUpFor #TheSquirrelChronicles #lifelately by @ystbyou
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2 days ago
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We’re calling this season ROMANTICIZING MY LIFE!

A beautiful atmosphere, a delicious meal, and some much-needed quality time with ME! And let me tell you, I enjoyed every minute of it! 

Sometimes you have to stop waiting for a special occasion, a reason, or someone else to treat you. YOU are the occasion! 

I’m learning to find joy in the little things, create beautiful moments for myself, and enjoy the life I’m building along the way.

Because this season? It’s about choosing ME, choosing JOY, and living fully! 

@komarestaurant thank you for such an amazing experience! 

When was the last time you took yourself on a date? šŸ‘€šŸ’•

#RomanticizeYourLife #SoloDate #ChoosingJoy #SelfLove #DatingMyself by @ystbyou
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7 days ago
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Acne, clogged pores, and congested skin… baby, we are getting things MOVING! 

Y’all know I’ve been talking all things acne this week, and today I’m sharing one of my FAVORITE masks… Limelife Mask of Zen! 

I like to call this my ā€œstraw in a jarā€ because it helps draw out excess oil and impurities and gives those congested pores some much-needed TLC!

I also used my  Good Molecules  Overnight Exfoliating Treatment to help with dead skin buildup and uneven texture. Because sometimes our skin needs a little EXTRA attention!

And let me say this for my sensitive-skin girlies… I have sensitive skin TOO! šŸ™‹šŸ½ā€ā™€ļø I’m very intentional about what I put on my face, and I love finding products that work for MY skin without leaving it feeling irritated!

One thing about skincare… consistency is KEY, and patience is part of the process! We aren’t looking for overnight miracles. We’re working toward healthier, happier skin! 

šŸ’• Now let’s talk skin! Are you dealing with breakouts, clogged pores, uneven texture, or a little bit of EVERYTHING? Drop your biggest skin concern below, and let’s find some goodies that work for YOU!

#MaskOfZen #SensitiveSkin #AcneCare #SkincareJourney #congestedskin by @ystbyou
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8 days ago
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Ok, I KNOW I’ve been talking all things ACNE this week, but clearly my skin wanted to join the conversation! 

I have NO idea what’s going on with the left side of my face, but baby, it has been CONGESTED! 

Thankfully, I have all the right goodies in my skincare arsenal to help get things back under control! šŸ™ŒšŸ½āœØ

And since Dai has officially taken over my spot treatment gel (because teenage skin has a mind of its own šŸ™„šŸ˜‚), I had to place ANOTHER order! This time, I’m keeping a spare because between her teenage breakouts and my grown-woman hormonal skin, we are NOT playing these games! 

One thing about me, I’m going to find what works and KEEP it stocked! 

Now tell me, are you dealing with teenage acne, adult breakouts, or BOTH in your household?

Drop a šŸ™‹šŸ½ā€ā™€ļø below or message me ā€œSKINā€ and let me help you find some goodies to add to your skincare routine! Because clear, healthy-looking skin is the GOAL at every age! by @ystbyou
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9 days ago
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Okay, I have to brag on some goodies we’ve been using lately….

As the kids get older, these hormones are HORMONING šŸ˜‚ and we’ve definitely started seeing some changes in their skin.

Now my Dai is just like her momma….sis LOVES a good serum, a skincare night, a routine… ALL the things!  Wellllll, she may have been doing a little too much, and we started noticing all these little bumps on her face.

So first, Momma shut ALL the extras down! But even after simplifying her routine, the bumps were still there. We went to the doctor, tried the cream we were given, and even scheduled a dermatology appointment… but the first available appointment was FOUR MONTHS away! 😩

So while we waited, I decided to keep things SIMPLE: a gentle cleanser, spot treatment, moisturizer and smoothing pads. Nothing complicated. Just consistency.

Y’all… by the time we finally made it to the dermatologist, her skin looked SO GOOD! The dermatologist basically told us to keep doing what we were doing because everything had cleared up beautifully!

SAY WHAT?! And your momma sells these too?! šŸ™ŒšŸ¾šŸ’ƒšŸ¾

Yes ma’am! I love finding products that are gentle enough for her routine and leave her skin looking healthy, smooth, and thriving. And the fact that Momma already had the goodies…. Even better! 

If you or your teen are trying to simplify your skincare routine, comment ā€œSKINā€and I’ll share what we’ve been using! 

PS this spot treatment has helped myself and my family!!!!

#teenskincare #teenskin #teenskincareproducts by @ystbyou
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11 days ago
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Happy FriYAY!!!!! Choosing JOY each and every day! 

Share this with someone today! 

#makeupover40 #solomom #solomomlife #workingforyou by @ystbyou
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14 days ago
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HAPPY HOMECOMING 2026 FROM THE SU CREW! 

@edwardtedjames -Unc — The One With THE OUTFIT 
@ystbyou — Auntie Jag 
@jvproductionsllc — The Y.N. 
@janea_claire13 — Ms. Popular 
@samint — The Gossiper 
@dtara_f — The Single Friend 

From our crew to yours — have fun, make memories, and represent SU right!

HAPPY SOUTHERN UNIVERSITY HOMECOMING 2026! 
Be safe. Enjoy yourself.

#love #hbcu #homecoming #pride #alumni taken in Baton Rouge, Louisiana by @ystbyou
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15 days ago
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That’s it!!! Happy Wednesday yall! 

#solomom #momentbymoment #busymombeauty by @ystbyou
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16 days ago
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