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Abel Daniel

@abelhdaniel

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An appreciation post for Charlee, my chosen family, the love of my life, and the unfortunate recipient of four-hour FaceTime calls that somehow turn into forensic psychological investigations of everyone I’ve ever met. Poor bitch deserves an honorary doctorate. ❤️

I’ve genuinely never felt so safe, understood, or loved by another person. She was there through the darkest moments of my eating disorder and continues to stand beside me in recovery, never once making me feel judged, ashamed, or difficult to love.

The last screenshot is actually from a therapy session she attended with me. My therapist is a HUGE fan of Charlee, which is impressive considering the amount of evidence she’s had to review. 😂

We wanted to better understand my trauma responses and reactivity, and how to navigate difficult moments together rather than turn against each other. Not because something was broken, but because our friendship matters enough to both of us to work on it.

Charlee can call me out on my bullshit without making me feel small. I can be vulnerable without worrying it’ll be used against me. We can disagree without me ever questioning her love or fearing abandonment.

That’s what makes this friendship so extraordinary to me. I don’t have to perform being okay to feel safe, and I’ve never had to question where I stand.

I love this woman beyond words. Thank you for showing me what it means to genuinely show up for someone, even when it’s complicated.

And thank you for continuing to answer my calls despite knowing that “one last thing” means another 90 minutes. I love you, bitch. ❤️ by @abelhdaniel

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4 days ago

I don’t get the same thrill from my @spotify playlist

#millennial #mixtape #playlist #mp3 by @abelhdaniel

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23 days ago

I don’t know why the audio and lips don’t match!

#adela #nicolekidman #katseye #popmusic #feelingmyself by @abelhdaniel

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a month ago

When I was at my worst, this was one of the most-used excuses for avoiding accountability: pathologizing.

Turn the other person into “the problem,” obsess over their reaction, and suddenly nobody has to discuss what actually happened.

A convenient little power move. And one of my favorite friendship piece-of-💩 classics.

#Pathologizing #Gaslighting #Accountability #ToxicFriendships #Awareness by @abelhdaniel

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a month ago

@prince and bell bottoms made absolute sense to me!!

#vintagestyle #personalstyle #zara #80smusic #denimondenim by @abelhdaniel

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a month ago

He’d sell all our valuables for a treat in a second, and I have to live with that fear because he’s baby boy.

#staffy #pitbull #souldog #naturalchildbirth by @abelhdaniel

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a month ago

Second attempt. Better song in my opinion

#vintagefendi #vintagefashion #designervintage #menswear #fendi by @abelhdaniel

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a month ago

This is my first edit on reels… go easy on me 😉

#styleinspo #vintageclothing #menswear #80smusic #preppy by @abelhdaniel

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2 months ago

Finally feeling like reentering the world after over 2 years of nonstop healing! #healingjourney #traumahealing #imback #powerfull #nomercy by @abelhdaniel

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2 months ago

I can always count on you ladies @gerihalliwellhorner @victoriabeckham @officialmelb @emmaleebunton @melaniecmusic 😍🌈🌈

#spicegirls #popmusic #sayyoullbethere #90smusic #gaysofinstagram by @abelhdaniel

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2 months ago

Furious is the best series on television on right now @furiousonhulu @hulu

#furious #hulu #streaming #emmyrossum #shameless by @abelhdaniel

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2 months ago

This turned out so awkward because these high schoolers were audibly laughing at me 🤪

#chula #beckyg #spanishlessons #bilingual #gymlove by @abelhdaniel

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2 months ago