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Happy National Boss’s Day to the guy behind the business, and the one I’m proud to stand beside!

Running your own business takes so much more than the craftsmanship. It takes dedication, countless hours, problem solving, and a level of commitment most people never see.
When the shop closes, your work doesn't stop. You're coming home to quotes, drawings, numbers, emails, and everything else it takes to keep the business moving and meet your clients’ needs/expectations.
I see the time, energy, and thought you put into this business every single day.
What makes me especially proud is watching you make a conscious effort to grow in how you communicate with people. You've always been honest and direct, but seeing you put extra thought and care into how your words are received has been wonderful to witness. That effort is making a difference, and I hope you recognize that.
I'm proud of the business you've built, the attention to detail you give, and the person you continue to become. I'm grateful to be beside you, and working behind the scenes to help keep it all moving.

Keeeeep going! 🤗✨️😁
#fridayvibes
#nationalbossesday
#lucky taken in Live Oak Fine Cabinetry & Millwork, Inc. by @chasemissd

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Over the weekend I was texting with a friend and it transitioned to a phone call. Nobody calls each other anymore!
It was so lovely!

I’ve been thinking a lot lately about how important human interaction really is.

I went from working in a busy workspace with people coming and going all day to working from home by myself.
As an extrovert, being in such an introverted workspace can definitely take a toll, and I know I’m not the only one.

So many of us are spending more time alone, even while being constantly “connected” through our phones.

Sometimes you just need to reach out.
Call a friend.
Strike up a conversation at the store.
Grab a coffee or tea.
Check in on someone.
Do things even on the days you feel low.
An hour into a good conversation, you realize you both feel a little better.

We need human connection.

Wishing you enough. 🤗❤️

#friendship #support #betheone by @chasemissd

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I can't imagine life without this crazy lil' guy.
Happy birthday, Lemmy Kittenmister! We love you! #cat #birthday #meowstagram by @chasemissd

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#lucky
Red Clay Strays in Tahoe! Got to hang out with Rachel, too!
Thanks for the post birthday celebration, AJ! Love you! taken in Stateline, Nevada by @chasemissd

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20% off through the end of August on all IN STOCK product.

Thank you so much for following, supporting and sharing!

celebrate #happy #beagoodhuman by @chasemissd

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Reflecting: Day 7
Birthdays are my favorite holiday!
Welcoming 53 with a grateful heart! 🥰🦁

For decades, I tried to be everything to everyone, all the time.
Then my 50s hit, and I realized… I am tired! 😆
I traded perfectionism for boundaries, self acceptance, and quiet confidence.
I refuse to follow ageist rules about what to wear or how I should look. To me, it's more important to feel strong, secure, and deeply grateful for every lesson that brought me here.

Life today is lighter, richer, and ohhhh so much more fun.
Here’s to growing older and wiser!

What are your favorite things that have gotten better with age?

#fiddythree #aging #photooftheday #fashion #happy by @chasemissd

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Reflecting: Day 6

A recent conversation with a friend prompted the topic for today...

The last few days have felt a lil' heavy, sitting with all life's shifts that come with time. But there is real freedom that comes with getting older.
I am noticing the older I get, the less energy I have for matching anyone else's timeline, meeting expectations, or seeking approval, I am trading all that nonsense for peace.
I started realizing that quiet mornings filled with gratitude, honest conversations with myself, and feeling completely at home in my own skin are the actual rewards.
Aging isn't only about moving forward it's about dropping what doesn't serve you, protecting your peace, and stepping into who you were meant to be all along.
#aging #beagoodhuman #birthday #friendship by @chasemissd

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Reflecting: Day 5
As I get older, I realize happiness isn't always about the huge milestones.
It is all the little feel-good things that are right in front of me daily.

•Filling beautiful vases from my Grandma with flowers from my garden.

• The perfect first sip of morning coffee.

• Hitting every single green light when I am running late.

• When the beat drops, and I'm having a solo concert in the car.

• The good morning/goodbye kiss and hug.

• Saying hello to my cats and they meow back.

• New socks.

• Seeing lizards doing push-ups on a hot sidewalk.

• Exchanging a look with friends, but you both know what the other is thinking.

• When you're at the store and someone let's you go first because you only have one item.

• Giving strangers a compliment. I love seeing how their expressions change and their face lights up.

What is one small thing bringing you joy today?

#thelittlethings #augustleo #lifeisgood #choosejoy by @chasemissd

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Reflecting: Day 4

Missing my Grandma Gracie on her day of birth. Today she would have been 97.

"It hurts when they're gone. And it doesn't matter if it's slow or fast, whether it's a long drawn-out disease or an unexpected accident. When they're gone the world turns upside down and you're left holding on, trying not to fall off."

She drank a lot of coffee
She dressed fun(ny)
She laughed
She knew all our stories
She didn't ask questions
She listened hard
She cared so much
She was never late.
She always answered her phone
She wore Salt Water sandals
She had blue-gray eyes
She welcomed everyone
We loved her
How lucky I am to have had someone so close that made saying goodbye so hard.
I miss you more today than yesterday.

Growing older brings quiet reflections. Especially about my grandmother and elders who laid the foundation for our family.
For everyone holding that same loss, I feel it too. It’s a powerful reminder of how precious we are to each other, and how important it is that we stay close.

Wishing you enough. ♡

#family #birthday #beagoodhuman #August #leo by @chasemissd

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Reflecting: Day 3

Each year when my birthday comes around, I find myself reflecting on life, the people in my circle, and the relationships that have shaped me along the way.
Those who stood beside me, and even the ones that haven’t.
I think sometimes, especially with ones who we hold closest, we’re so quick to become judgmental and angry when we don't agree that we forget accountability means looking honestly at both sides. Not only at our own actions, but how we choose to respond to the actions of others.
We hold the people closest to us to such a high standard, and it feels like because of that, disagreements hit differently.
One comment can bring up the weight of old wounds, years of history, and expectations.
It’s so easy in those moments to shut down, walk away, go silent, or decide, "middle fingers!".
Sometimes ego, the need to be right, or unwillingness to take accountability becomes more important than the relationship itself.
Why??? Why do we do that?

We’re all doing this life together, figuring it out as we go.
We make mistakes, we hurt people, we get hurt, and hopefully, HOPEFULLY we learn from it.
Your feelings are valid. Hurt is real. Boundaries matter. But emotions pass, and time doesn’t go backward.
You never know when the last conversation you have with someone will actually be the last.

Something to ask ourselves: Am I really okay with this being where it ends?
Maybe today is a good day to give a little more grace, a little more accountability, and a little less pride and a lot more kindness.

Wishing you enough.

#reflecting #life #birthdays #beagoodhuman #relationships by @chasemissd

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SHOWING UP FOR OTHERS

As I continue to reflect on my life this week, I'm thinking about the quiet ways we show up for our community.

For me, that looks like Sunday feedings and welfare checks for Marin Ferals cat colonies.
Making sure injured animals and new litters get the help they need, they are fed, and have shelter.

It also means my work with BridgeWatch Angels, providing compassionate support to those in crisis on the Golden Gate Bridge.
While there aren’t organized group walks on the bridge right now, I am always open to scheduling a walk with anyone who wants to learn more or anyone who simply needs a listening ear and some support themselves.

Showing up with quiet empathy for animals and humans helps keeps me connected and reminds me of what really matters.
🌉🐾🥰

If you or someone you know needs support, I understand reaching out can be hard. It is okay to not be okay. You have support waiting for you, and you are absolutely loved.

To everyone experiencing that loss, I see you, and understand. Healing hugs. 🫂❤️‍🩹
#reflection #volunteer #beagoodhuman by @chasemissd

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8/2008

August 16th now carries heavy weight for me.
One year ago today, my dear friend passed away, and heading into my own birthday week without her leaves a soft spot in my heart.
We met years ago working at the Raceway and shared so many great times over the decades, especially taking birthday trips to Vegas to celebrate with her.
She was pure energy! A talented chef, devoted dog mom, loved the color pink, Hello Kitty, and The Simpsons. (She was also the undisputed queen of lovingly correcting everyone’s spelling and grammar! Okay, maybe it wasn't always lovingly. 😜)
Even when life pulled us in different directions for periods, picking right back up with her was effortless. Today, I’m celebrating the laughs, the history, and the unforgettable mark she left on my life.
Missing you today and always, Eve. 💕
#enettle

If there is someone you're missing today, sending big hugs and healing thoughts your way. by @chasemissd

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