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6 months ago
This has been such a challenging (albeit truly beautiful) season of life. So, for my birthday this year, instead of typical “happy birthday” wishes, I’d love if anyone reading this would share a positive memory they have of/with me. Did I do something that made you laugh? Did I work on something that brought you joy? 

Also worth mentioning, I felt SO tempted to edit this photo before posting it. It’s so easy to pick out every single flaw, especially at a time where my body still doesn’t feel like mine. But at least for today, I’m choosing to embrace myself as I am. It’s a weird dichotomy to recognize and honor how much my body went through to make the incredible tiny human (who is currently napping on my chest), yet still want that same body to “bounce back.” But I look at my daughter and think about how it would break my heart if she ever thought she was anything less than perfect. And so today, as my mother’s daughter, and my daughter’s mother, I allow myself to feel like I’m enough, exactly as I am right now.
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Posted On: April 13th 2026, 06:45 pm
This has been such a challenging (albeit truly beautiful) season of life. So, for my birthday this year, instead of typical “happy birthday” wishes, I’d love if anyone reading this would share a positive memory they have of/with me. Did I do something that made you laugh? Did I work on something that brought you joy?

Also worth mentioning, I felt SO tempted to edit this photo before posting it. It’s so easy to pick out every single flaw, especially at a time where my body still doesn’t feel like mine. But at least for today, I’m choosing to embrace myself as I am. It’s a weird dichotomy to recognize and honor how much my body went through to make the incredible tiny human (who is currently napping on my chest), yet still want that same body to “bounce back.” But I look at my daughter and think about how it would break my heart if she ever thought she was anything less than perfect. And so today, as my mother’s daughter, and my daughter’s mother, I allow myself to feel like I’m enough, exactly as I am right now.
Comments (182)
justinsally_0422 5 months ago

justinsally_0422

Today is Mother's Day—are you going back to spend time with your mother?

bensnroses 6 months ago

bensnroses

There’s so much more that I could share, but you just have a knack for making my day. Whether it’s a photo of a hummingbird sighting or some of the most real and honest posts about grief or the real challenges of being a parent, you just have one of the kindest hearts of anyone I know. Even from afar, you help make me feel grounded and not alone and I so appreciate you Stacy!

tracyshibata 6 months ago

tracyshibata

We have never met, but I feel like I know you. Your name echos in conversations when talking about people who move mountains, live from love and create magic. People I love deeply sing your praises and love you endlessly. I hope you feel it. 🤍

davepantano 6 months ago

davepantano

You and your husband made a dingy park of barren earth, which left clouds of dust clinging to your clothes and skin, feel like somewhere I needed to be on a daily basis.

itsmonique 6 months ago

itsmonique

1. I love you immensely. 2. Happiest of birthday wishes. 3. Flaws where?!? They are solely in your head and I see my beautiful bestie living her life in ways we never imagined. 4. Soooooo many memories, like SMDub writing raps going up 95, surprising you with a tiger in our hotel bathroom, running around Bamboozled looking for Zach Galifianakis, your first true snow day and the subsequent events of getting stranded up north, and of course screaming eat a dick to too many people to count

nappyheadedjojoba 6 months ago

nappyheadedjojoba

Happy belated birthday! I have too many lovely memories of chatting about good books, bad books, recipes and shady park people to single out only one, and I look forward to adding to that number. 🎂🥳

louthegenius 6 months ago

louthegenius

“I’ve never been to South Beach”

madisonwatkrn 6 months ago

madisonwatkrn

My favorite memory is definitely finding out that we were going to have baby girls within weeks of each other!! So glad to have grown closer to you during this postpartum journey 💗

thedigi 6 months ago

thedigi

Omg. So many! Weird park Ninja Turtle shit notwithstanding But how bout more recently, when you thought I ran the longest, unclear prank by inviting an old homie from your intern days to my bday party— my decade-old homie @vicnewjerz Miss u and all our long long park chats 🫶🫶 hope you’re doing amazing, mamma! Love u

meredith_maselli 6 months ago

meredith_maselli

Happy birthday princess. Maybe not the best memory- but I’ll never forget all of our covid chats ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

jeffchasin13 6 months ago

jeffchasin13

Um, but what if every memory is a positive one? Finding out you know Dredg? That might've been when I realized just how cool you are.

insta_gray 6 months ago

insta_gray

2018: 7pm, I had just finished at the gym, and you called me like, “drop everything and meet me at Staples Center in 45 minutes—I got us friends and family tickets to see Elton John.” To this day, I have no idea how I managed to shower, get dressed, and get from the Grove to Staples in 45 minutes (IYKYK). Thank you for letting me scream Benny and the Jets in your ear 😂 Also… bonus memory: getting poached off the tour we met on, making the jump from NYC to LA, and getting to be coworkers for such a fun chapter in my life (except the cotton candy machine LOL). Love you happy birthday beautiful!

sunahbee 6 months ago

sunahbee

Happy Burddaaayyy!! In addition to your whole ass wit and sharp retorts, your charcuterie board will literally never be beat! And you have such a huge bubbling heart 💞💞💞

stacyskipper13 6 months ago

stacyskipper13

Happy birthday, Stacy! While we bonded over grief of losing our dads, sometimes that in itself is beautiful. That little one in your arms is proof that life itself is beautiful and I hope that you have a wonderful day. 🤗❤️🎉

newyorkcouture 6 months ago

newyorkcouture

We got married Lolol. Wt marriage lol 😘😘😘🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷

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