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Susie Carmichael energy, always • Building bridges & creating inclusive spaces • Chicago born, SF resident • @baeblackboy • @lyricsf

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More of: Music
Less of: Overindulging in things I know are not good for me
What did I learn: “Sometimes I go about in pity for myself, and all the while, a great wind carries me across the sky” ~ adapted from “Dream Song of the Thunders”
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#happybirthday #libra #melaninmagic #bonanniversaire

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Actually, I chimed in with a “Can I ask y’all some follow up questions?”

Happy Birthday, @coltonredwine!
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#idontknowanymychemicalromancesongs #blackparade #happybirthday #instagay #latergram

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More practice! #procreate #c2c #animation #sketching #sanfransisco

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I loved making this look for @imakeitrayner still and had yet to post styling! What was your favorite costume in the 5th element

Latex from Nordic and bunker!

#cosplay #latexfashion #5thelement #gaultier #costumedesign

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My heart is still full of joy and compersion from celebrating @corky_corn and @urbanarch’s bachelor party last weekend. I can’t wait to celebrate your wedding as your officiant next month in Lisbon. I have learned so much about love from both of you and it will be one of the honors of my life to have the opportunity to play it back to you during your ceremony. See you soon!
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#bachelorparty #chicago #loveislove #instagay

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This summer marked the end of my time as a board member of the Lavender Youth Recreation and Information Center, Inc. During my four year tenure, I served as Board Secretary, Co-Chair, and sole Chair.

While we accomplished much more than I can list here, the experience came at a time that has felt particularly tumultuous for LGBTQ+ non-profits. I watched funds be readily given and taken away. I learned how organizations on the margins respond to bomb threats and other violence. I mingled in rooms of leaders trying to solve problems that shouldn’t have been theirs to endure in the first place. But there was also so much joy and laughter. There was an ever-present feeling that we could always improve. There was intense passion for the mission. For the first time in my life, I worked in community with people of all identities and walks of life, trying to make things better specifically for LGBTQ+ youth. It is said that you should be who you needed when you were younger. Over the last four years, we’ve endeavored to do just that, together. My inner child and outer adult are eternally grateful.

Thank you to @philllllipkim who nominated me for the board, to @gael_lalachavez who served as the ED during my membership, to @ryan__realized @mmilley and @theladybarahona for keeping me grounded, and to all the staff and other board members whose path I was fortunate enough to cross.

While my official time on the board is over, I am extremely excited to continue to support LYRIC from outside the Purple House. If you want to be a part of positively impacting young LGBTQ+ lives, I encourage you to follow @lyricsf and check out their website lyric.org for ways to support.
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#sanfrancisco #lgbtqyouth #nonprofit #castro #LYRIC

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House Party, Vol.5: Back to School

We doubled our goal and raised $1k for my neighborhood public middle school! Thanks to all who attended and donated. And a special shout out to @morningduecafe for supporting our event with pizzas!
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#latergram #houseparty #fundraiser #communityorganizing

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Still reeling from the love this past weekend at @taylor_haines and @noahgreen88’s wedding. It was such a delight to celebrate one of my oldest friend’s nuptials. Thank you for treating me like family. And WOW! Your community is STRONG! I’ve never seen anything like it! If the true test of who we are is who we surround ourselves with then you both have nothing to worry about, ever. Wishing you all the joys life can bring on your journey together and can’t wait to come hang in Portland soon!
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#wedding #oregon #brotherfromanother #bestfriends #foundfamily

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Dear Mikey,

I am so proud of you for moving (and back to my hometown, no less)! You are gonna set the city ablaze. I can’t wait to bear witness.

In contemplating your departure, I’ve had so many thoughts I wanted to articulate, but it is said that the most magnificent things we experience in life leave us with few words. You, my friend, have rendered me speechless. So, I will borrow language from another. I once heard a guest on Brandon Kyle Goodman’s podcast “Black Folx” describe life for marginalized people as often feeling like wandering from one oasis in the desert to another. I want to thank you, Michael, for being a refuge for me. I’ve learned so much from you. I’ve laughed and cried so many times with you. And most of all, I’ve found a home with you.

Luckily, I know this isn’t goodbye. I can’t wait for the next time that we get to giggle under the shade of each other’s branches again. Good luck! Remember: you are deeply loved, you can do anything you put your mind to, and you can always ask for help. Call me soon.

All my love,
Andrew
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#bestfriends #movingday #instagay #sanfrancisco #chicago

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In the summer of 2020, four fellas convened in a backyard in San Francisco and decided to be a Covid pod. Six years later, this quartet has remained my core group of friends in San Francisco. Soon, the fellowship will break as one of our number is moving away.

We spent this past weekend on a boys trip to Sacramento. It was full of curly wigs, delicious food, tremendous heat, Baywatch, and a lot of laughter. As I think about our origins and this current moment of departure, I am struck by a similarity: we didn’t know what to expect from the future and we were all a little scared. What I am certain of now after all this time as a group is that the ones you care for and that care for you are how we survive and thrive. We are on the same team. We face the unexpected together.

While I am sad that our time living in the same place has come to an end, I am so excited for what is to come for all of us. I know that while we may be apart, we’ll continue to root for each other, send love, and share laughter just like we always have since the day our journey together began. I love you guys. Thanks for everything and I can’t wait for our next adventure.
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#bestfriends #latergram #instagay #loveislove #california

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Taking a moment for digital camera moments

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¿y si sí?

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