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Tarea Elixir

@tareaselixir

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Intimacy & Intuitive Coach
Helping you feel more at home in your mind, body, and soul ⋒ #lekwungenterritory & globally
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What would it look and feel like to be free of shame? 🍂

Explore this with us on a collaborative photoshoot with @tareaselixir and @kayzinger (scroll for details)

Feeling nervous for a photoshoot is SO normal—but it doesn’t have to hold you back! This experience is designed to help you shake some of that fear and tap into something deeper, so you get to take away from it more than just beautiful photos.

Simply show up as yourself. Let us guide you through the rest! 🤍

Includes:

• pre-session questionnaire/call to learn more about how we can make this session most impactful for you

• 15 minute energy attunement to help tap into your unashamed self

• 35-45 min photoshoot with intuitive posing guidance and confidence coaching

• a creatively styled outdoor setting (exact location tbd—within 1 hour drive of “Victoria”)

• 15 edited digital photos

• post-session journal prompts to continue your work beyond the session

🌙 3 spots available on Friday, November 6, 2026

• 2:00 PM
• 3:15 PM
• 4:30 PM

Investment: $600

Message @tareaselixir or @kayzinger with questions and find sign up info at the links in bios 🐦‍🔥

* not all photos in the post belong to us, and are simply being used as examples for the general mood/vibe and are not necessarily representative of the photos produced from the shoots

#victoriaphotographer #victoriaphotography #intuitivehealer taken in Victoria, British Columbia by @tareaselixir

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Thank you to the lovely and vibrant @tareaselixir for trusting me to help bring your vision to life! 💐

Stay tuned for the opportunity to work with both Tarea and I on a special shoot of your own 👀

#victoria #victoriaphotographer #victoriaphotography #creativeportraits #portraitmood taken in Victoria, British Columbia by @tareaselixir

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Becoming feral means that sometimes people will feel uncomfortable in response to my existence.

For example, when the innocent 20 something year old cashier asked me "Do you have any exciting plans for Thanksgiving?" And the words "Celebrating my dead uncle" came blurting out of my mouth.......and then he said "Well atleast everyone already has the time off work", and I replied "..........sure"

.........anxiety immediately filled the air between us.

I had .5 seconds for my body, mind, sensations, and words to make a decision. A decision I have to make all the time, that in all honesty I would rather not make.

But alas, I found myself exposed once again to a classic social norm where I was faced with options

1. Just say "not really and avoid the moment"
2. Be honest and feral and raw because I don't have any fucks left
3. Say something vague and quickly leave the situation and put the attention back on him with "what about you?"

Cuz the truth is. I've become confused by what truly feels right for me in those little moments of existence. Because sometimes I get thrown off guard and something awkward spills out of my being. A side effect in the fine print of unmasking.

But sometimes I can slow down enough to consider the experience that would feel nice........

It's a 50/50 gamble. That I'm going to feel anxious and awkward, or calm and cool.

Allowing myself to value depth and honestly and permission to be feral has given me these quandarys.

Because as much as I would like to be, I'm not always in control of my neuro spicey gay brain that has known death, more death, birth, heartbreak, and all the ways they have expanded me.

It does complicate my life for sure. But becoming feral, at the very least, gives the parts inside (angry parts, grieving parts, sexy parts, annoying parts, creative parts) a chance to feel real and whole.

And maybe with practice, my spirit will find a graceful way to be honest and whole but leave these social moments feeling more funny and less "fuuuuuuck"

May I find a way to be in my messy human experience with more humor and gentleness for myself and others.

In other words, happy pumpkin pie weekend?

Xoxo

📸 @kayzinger by @tareaselixir

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7 days ago

NEW OFFERING 🌿

60 or 90 minutes of:

◇ energy attunement
◇ intuitive quantum exploration
◇ energy clearing and redirect

Where my intimacy coaching intersects with my withchiness.

Great if you are needing more spiritual moments, 🍄journey integration, or just want to tune into your ethereal magic self to move forward in your desires and path with more clarity.

See you in there bb's

When booking a session type "intuitive session" into your form

Xoxox

🌿🌌

Beautiful and dreamy photo by @kayzinger by @tareaselixir

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I have been blessed to do this photo shoot with @kayzinger amidst some very sharp and grief filled months.

Blessed to do something just for fun, just because, and to follow our creativity together.

When I was on my way to the shoot, I had such little energy. I wondered if I could do it at all.

And just like that, we started to gab, gather, and essentially uhual our hearts and souls into a field with this creative vision.

Sapphic music blaring. Bass bumpin. Flowers abound. The fun became effortless.

It gave me life amidst death.

I know for me personally it is hard to lean in to fun when things are hard. And I also know, that it's the fun, the pleasure, the play, and the dark humor totally human moments that give me vigor to move through the hard times with new life and energy. To feel real.

Because life is always dying and creating. Cycles keep coming and going. There is not one magical day to wait to feel optimal.

It's when we take a chance, even when we don't feel ready, that we can be in the new experience we are longing for.

By doing, and by being, a balance of both, we might find ourselves to be exactly where we always wanted.

At least energetically and in our bodies. Just maybe. Just maybe.

When I see this photo. I see myself. Loving fiercely all my parts. So I can hold the torch for others to do the same when they are ready. Or just, because, this love is worth offering to myself.

Thank you cutest @kayzinger for such a fun, raw, and real photo shoot.

I am quietly behind the scenes brewing life and death, and the vagenious that tends to come from that cycle, but here is your sneak peak into our photo shoot.

Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. by @tareaselixir

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Water prayers ♡

Rosa barked and decided I was done for now haha

#intimacycoach by @tareaselixir

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✨ FACILITATOR SPOTLIGHT: TAREA ELIXIR ✨

Meet Tarea Elixir, who will be guiding Wild & Welcomed — a dance journey that feels like a homecoming for every part of you. 🌈

Drawing on contemplative arts, parts work, and somatic embodiment, Tarea creates space to explore and reclaim the parts of ourselves that have been left behind or left out on the dance floor. Whether you’ve experienced dance floor bullying, feel uncertain in your body, or simply want to discover new ways of moving, this journey is an invitation to find your dance as if for the very first time.

This one is for all of us. The wild ones, the weirdo ones, the ones still finding their way in. 💕

What part of you is ready to be welcomed?

📍 August 7–9, 2026 | Providence Farm, Cowichan Valley

🎫 www.dancetemplegathering.com

#DanceTempleGathering #DTG2026 #FacilitatorSpotlight #DTG2026Facilitators #somaticdance taken in Providence Farm by @tareaselixir

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Desires can be kinda weird
They can leave us wondering what the fuck we are doing and why the fuck we even want the damn thing to begin with

So, the spiral comes in

The shame
The overthinking
The existential crisis

It's the questioning of the desire that takes you further and further away from curiosity and creativity

Which live in the heart and soul

Birthplaces of desires
Messages from the universe

The tree never stops growing to question why it would want to be a tree

But we.

We have the capacity to completely override our desires. To avoid feeling loss and grief that comes when we hold our desires close.

Because we want to make the 'right' choice
The 'perfect' choice
We want to belong

And when our desires contradict the reality of someone we love or the world at large

It triggers the trauma of abandonment and outcasting

Which still equals death to our survival animal bodies

And yet. Even if we ignore our desires and try to think them away in order to stay close to those we love.

They keep you awake at night. Or they find their way back to you in the stillness of your comfortable life.

The truth always comes out.

And truth isn't always easy. Sometimes it ask of you so much you can barely handle it.

But the more you practice softening into your truth. Playfully investigating where your heart wants to go.

The more you will find your people and places that allow your desires to safely soften out into the wild edges of your soul.

And eventually, the part of you that was contracted will relax. And the expansion of who you are will start to spill out like rays of sunshine through the forest canopy.

And that relief of living in the light of your own love and soul will tell you exactly why you never let go of your desires. The soft whispers. The loud cries.

#intimacycoaching by @tareaselixir

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Sometimes I follow my heart and soul without knowing why I being led somewhere

So I pray to the land and skies to help me listen so I can be in deeper integrity with being human and who I am here to be.

And the reasons why I am led somewhere can often be so so different then I could have imagined.

Like deepening my friendships with already soul fam @chelsa.bells @hey.ann.hodge @breezybabe4

Or grieving more of the loss I know to make way for new (whitecrow).

Or meeting beautiful spirits that feel like rest and play to stand beside @sistersoftheonedrum

Or seeing all the work still needed to introduce myself and listen. Which is a basic teaching we all forget. To say hi with an open heart and ask to be welcomed with curiosity.

Gi suk gew kiet

Or to meet so many mamas helping me on my journey @sacredspacesbirthkeeper

Following heart, soul, and spirit doesn't always require knowing. But requires deep listening and reverence for yourself, your body, and the land and skies you are in conversation with.

Energy is always guiding you if you can get quiet enough to listen.

Happy rebirthday

@earthdaughtersfestival by @tareaselixir

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Pussy power active

@earthdaughtersfestival by @tareaselixir

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Pussy consciousness prayers

For a better planet

#intimacycoach by @tareaselixir

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Lol I had to fix the typo....🤪

Success feels like "this moment is just for me"

Unabashedly living in my joy, play, sisterhood, and pleasure.

Thank you my body

We made it, over and over and over again

@earthdaughtersfestival

Also how am I making this from literally above the clouds? 🛫2026 you wild.

#pinkponyclub #queercoach #sexwitch #intimacycoach by @tareaselixir

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